It's just an object. It doesn't mean what you think.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 45: Smooth as Billy Dee Williams.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sue - Jun 05, 2006 5:52:47 am PDT #715 of 10002
hip deep in pie

Sophia, sometimes vet offices are a good place to look for pets.

Last night's Grey's Anatomy was the second rerun in a row that I hadn't seen. And I thought I hadn't missed any this season.


Nilly - Jun 05, 2006 5:55:34 am PDT #716 of 10002
Swouncing

It's good to read that things are at least moving along in the right direction, Sophia, and that your boss is understanding.

plenty of calm, older cats, which I think is what I need after this.

Good luck with that, too.

Teppy, it's funny - I remember your 30th birthday, because one of the first e-mails I dared send a Buffista ever was the "happy birthday" e-card I sent you.


brenda m - Jun 05, 2006 5:57:50 am PDT #717 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

And I totally dig my 30s. Love love love. My 20s were mostly lame, and the overwhelming afterimage left by that decade is how I felt really out of step with everyone else my age,

My sister was angsting about turning 26 recently and feeling like she hadn't done anything with her life, yadda yadda, and I said to her "all I can tell you is my late twenties kicked the ass of my early twenties, and my thirties (so far) are kicking the ass out of my late twenties." As I saw later from some lj posts, it was exactly what she needed to hear (and had the added bonus of being true).


Theodosia - Jun 05, 2006 5:58:20 am PDT #718 of 10002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Oooh, as long as we're talking reruns, let me mention that a particularly outstanding Without A Trace is airing this Thursday night (10 PM EST), where the entire story is from the POV of the parents of the missing child, so that you get to see what the story looks like from the "outside."


billytea - Jun 05, 2006 6:00:15 am PDT #719 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Oh, and we need a way to factor 17 in, because, well, 17".

Nilly! They've discovered a new penguin species. Well, they knew they were there before, but now they're a whole new species. Which is lovely, because penguins, but it means that the total number of penguin species has risen from 17 to 18. We can blame the French. (I'm sure the Old School penguins still support you in email, though.)


Dana - Jun 05, 2006 6:01:39 am PDT #720 of 10002
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

"all I can tell you is my late twenties kicked the ass of my early twenties, and my thirties (so far) are kicking the ass out of my late twenties."

I heard people say that several years ago, and found it comforting.


Trudy Booth - Jun 05, 2006 6:03:43 am PDT #721 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

My 30th was spent in an absolute dive of a bar in Detroit's Cass corridor.

Cass has a corridor?

Oh, very neglectfully forgot to say:

My birthdays subsequent to 31 have been made wonderful by Buffistas.

I developed an allergy to spending them here in the city so the first year I went to Halifax, was hosted by Elena and Brian and the other Haligonistas took me out and got me drunk several times. There are incriminating martini-related photos of us with Susan, Meegan, Meegan's DH, Ouis, Norah and Mecha but since they are Canadian and particularly polite they haven't shown them TOO much.

The second year I was broke broke BROKE and Ellen (bless her sweet head forever) sent me a Fung Wah ticket to Boston and hosted me and then threw a party and all the Somervillians came and there were outings with Connie and Jen and Val and Em and Victor and Thessaly.

The third year I was in LA with Aimee, Miracleman, Debetesse, Sean, Tomash and a pre-natal Emeline and then was scooped up by Cass and taken to San Diego and Joshua Tree.

Last year there was a family wedding on the 10th so I was unable to leave town by much -- Kat Perez and Debetesse came to the Jersey Shore with me and my family.

Saying they haven't been "truly happy" was unfair. True they're tinged with sadness, but thanks to my families (both bio and 'ffista) my Birthdays are beautiful beautiful days.


Jars - Jun 05, 2006 6:05:54 am PDT #722 of 10002

I'm really enjoying my early twenties. I wish I had more of an income so I could travel more, but college is good too. Plus, I have time. No one has any expectations of me, including myself. I have the freedom to do or go where I want, finances permitting, and I know I can get a job in the field I love pretty much whenever I want.

Hate me.


Topic!Cindy - Jun 05, 2006 6:05:54 am PDT #723 of 10002
What is even happening?

'Young for this board' used to be a whole lot younger. I don't know what's happening... it's like people are aging or something.

Yes, plust some of our younger ones sort of out grew us, and/or moved on, and/or got busy with real life: RLiz, Madrigal, and even Alibelle and Holli aren't around all that much.

We still have a few other people south of thirty, though.


Nilly - Jun 05, 2006 6:16:24 am PDT #724 of 10002
Swouncing

I'm sure the Old School penguins still support you in email, though

Oh, now I *really* want to get e-mails from penguins, because, well, penguins.

Jars, I love the way you described your current state. Sorry, but can't hate you.

Trudy! On the F2F pictures, the first one of you that I saw was of the back, no face, and I was wondering who it was. Later, when I got to see pictures of you that included your face, I realize who it was - I had no idea bout the hair (oh, and you lost quite some weight, too). You looked great.