Well, look at you. All dressed up in big sister's clothes.

Faith ,'End of Days'


Natter 45: Smooth as Billy Dee Williams.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jessica - Jul 07, 2006 5:36:14 am PDT #5726 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

New study shows that people are paranoid:

The study found that:
* Over 40% of people regularly worry that negative comments are being made about them
* 27% think that people deliberately try to irritate them
* 20% worry about being observed or followed
* 10% think that someone has it in for them
* 5% worry that there is a conspiracy to harm them

I'm not at work today! Woohoo!


Lee - Jul 07, 2006 5:37:11 am PDT #5727 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

If it's more of a dragging action, it hurts like papercuts. Those fuckers are sharp.

I think that's what this must be, because I use the superthins.

Ow.


lisah - Jul 07, 2006 5:44:26 am PDT #5728 of 10002
Punishingly Intricate

Well, that's just true of stabbing. If it's more of a dragging action, it hurts like papercuts.

This is what I've always managed to do to myself the few times I've jabbed me. Owie! (and, thanks!, that reminded me that I need to pick up syringes today).

I think throwing a party for yourself is totally fine. Most years my best friends have a party for me at their place but I end up sending out the invitation. This year friends have scheduled their wedding BBQ celebration on my birthday (it's a Sat. this year) and, while I'm thrilled they're getting married and all and I know it will be a fun time, I'm a little miffed about having to share my day.


brenda m - Jul 07, 2006 5:45:55 am PDT #5729 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, that reminds me. I'm cat sitting a diabetic cat next week, so I may be calling on y'all for advice.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jul 07, 2006 5:53:32 am PDT #5730 of 10002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

* Over 40% of people regularly worry that negative comments are being made about them

I've found that downsizing the number of people whose opinions matter to you helps tremendously with this.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 07, 2006 5:55:06 am PDT #5731 of 10002
What is even happening?

* 27% think that people deliberately try to irritate them
I wonder if this number reflects some under reporting. It seems to me like people are tightfisted with benefit-of-the-doubt. I know this is something I'm guilty of, and it's also something I notice a lot, in other people, not towards me, just when they're talking about something that's happened to them (cf. * Over 40% of people regularly worry that negative comments are being made about them).


Gudanov - Jul 07, 2006 6:19:53 am PDT #5732 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

New study shows that people are paranoid:

What are you saying? Are you implying that I'm too paranoid? I always knew Jesse was out to get me.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 07, 2006 6:24:23 am PDT #5733 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Last week Nora 'updated my file' to allow it, so I will note...

Aw, Rick, you may weigh in on any and all subjects! I enjoy your posts. (in case my teasing was unclear in any way on that point)

Re: birthday parties. I am always organizing my own birthday thing, because, well, I honestly don't expect other people to remember it, and then I can organize the when and where and what that I like, 'cause it's my birthday! I don't get the reticsence to plan one's own birthday celebration. Maybe it's the perception that to do so is to troll for presents?


Jesse - Jul 07, 2006 6:30:52 am PDT #5734 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I always knew Jesse was out to get me.

Am not! But Lee might be.

On the birthday thing -- I don't hang out in crowds where it is expected that you will buy an extravagant birthday gift (or any, really), but I can imagine that if you were, it becomes a slightly different situation. Generally my friends buy dinner for the birthday girl, and that's that. Two times weird things have happened: One year, just three of us went out, so I felt bad that they split my dinner between them (so in that case I wished I had invited more people), and last year a friend came who's not from the US and gave me a fairly significant present, and I wished I had told her not to. But otherwise, no big whoop.


Gudanov - Jul 07, 2006 6:33:01 am PDT #5735 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

Lee's posts always did look shifty.