Two by two, hands of blue. Two by two, hands of blue.

River ,'Ariel'


Natter 45: Smooth as Billy Dee Williams.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Jul 05, 2006 9:07:39 am PDT #5467 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!

I would probably also say "Wow, thanks for the compliment." because I don't get asked out.


Glamcookie - Jul 05, 2006 9:11:49 am PDT #5468 of 10002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

So if a lesbian asks out another woman, they should find a third party to pay for the date?

Greatest rule EVAH! Just present the data (and the check) to the nearest man.


sumi - Jul 05, 2006 9:13:04 am PDT #5469 of 10002
Art Crawl!!!

I think it's the longest match in Grand Slam history.

6 hours and 9 minutes.

And the lucky winners of the match get to play in the semis tomorrow!


Vortex - Jul 05, 2006 9:14:04 am PDT #5470 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

It is raining now. I wish to nap.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jul 05, 2006 9:29:40 am PDT #5471 of 10002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Oh hell no. The asker pays, period. (The askee, if s/he can afford it, should be polite and offer to split the bill, or at least cover the tip, but women asking guys out and expecting to be treated to dinner? WTF is that?)

Golddigging, IMHO. I think it's nice of a guy who's asked out to offer to pay, or at least to pay his half, but it should be in no way required that he do so.

So if a lesbian asks out another woman, they should find a third party to pay for the date?

The drawback to this strategy is that the man who ends up paying will probably want to watch.


Glamcookie - Jul 05, 2006 9:32:57 am PDT #5472 of 10002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

A world of ew!


flea - Jul 05, 2006 9:35:15 am PDT #5473 of 10002
information libertarian

I am always more comfortable splitting a check, no matter who asked who. But two men I've dated, one of whom I married, were adamant about paying, saying it didn't feel like a date unless they did. In both cases this was sweetly old-fashioned and not aggressive or obnoxious, otherwise there would have been no more dates, and certainly no marriage.

I think one place it gets confusing - or used to to me; I haven't dated in 10 years - it sometimes it's not clear what is "a date" and what is "friends going out" and it's also not always clear just who asked whom.


Strix - Jul 05, 2006 10:18:41 am PDT #5474 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

hey, i just got call that i have an elective i can teach! Help a high school teacher out -- thoughts?


Tom Scola - Jul 05, 2006 10:20:13 am PDT #5475 of 10002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Are you asking for a subject to teach?


tommyrot - Jul 05, 2006 10:21:38 am PDT #5476 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Laugh and say, “I don’t think my girlfriend/boyfriend would approve.”

So those of us who have no GF/BF should lie?

If you’re not sure if you’re being asked out, just drop an unmistakable hint into the conversation referring to your heterosexuality.

How would one do that?

For some reason, that's something I make a point to never do...