Gavin, ask yourself this question. What are you more afraid of, a giant murderous demon or me?

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Natter 45: Smooth as Billy Dee Williams.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


libkitty - Jul 01, 2006 10:17:05 pm PDT #5005 of 10002
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

It is raining in my bathroom.

I'm so sorry Allyson. I agree that there should be something off your rent to compensate for getting a hotel room, whether or not you actually do. On the bright side, at least the water is raining in the bathroom. Inconvenient, but at least it's not raining all over your books or computer equipment. Still, if they can'f fix it before Wednesday, you should get money.


Hil R. - Jul 02, 2006 2:17:18 am PDT #5006 of 10002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

That really sucks, Allyson. And yeah, waiting for a plumber until Wednesday seems like it ought to be illegal.

Week one of my summer job is over. I'm really enjoying it -- it's almost making me want to consider teaching as a regular career. Or possibly some kind of research in gifted education.


flea - Jul 02, 2006 3:11:26 am PDT #5007 of 10002
information libertarian

This is an interesting article (NYT, needs login) about shrinking social networks that takes the internet into consideration. Except they obviously don't know our special brand of internet closeness: [link]


Theodosia - Jul 02, 2006 3:58:15 am PDT #5008 of 10002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Hippo Birdies, Frank, wherever you are!

I didn't plan on going shoe shopping last night, but a Famous Footwear store leaped on me as I was accidentally walking along. I escaped with my life and a pair each of Keds and Aerosoles.


Lee - Jul 02, 2006 4:43:57 am PDT #5009 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Happy Birthday Frank!

Yay for new shoes, and escaping with your life Theodosia!


Lee - Jul 02, 2006 5:50:22 am PDT #5010 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Is it tacky to serve popsicles at a brunch?


§ ita § - Jul 02, 2006 5:52:05 am PDT #5011 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Not if they're grape flavoured, no.

Huh. Suddenly I want mimosa popsicles. This is going to end in privation.


Lee - Jul 02, 2006 5:54:44 am PDT #5012 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I have some grape flavored.

Whew!

Okay, bagels, popsicles, and peach nectar have been bought. I have about 2 hours of last minute stuff to do, and 3.5 or 4 hours before anyone will show up. I think I can do this.


Theodosia - Jul 02, 2006 6:14:28 am PDT #5013 of 10002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

It's such a good thing that the MicroCenter across from Trader Joes wasn't open when I was doing my bi-monthly foodshopping, because in the mood I'm in, I might have walked in and bought a new MacBook, what with the mood I'm in. ("Shiny!") I'll just have to lust in my heart for a while longer.


Allyson - Jul 02, 2006 6:16:38 am PDT #5014 of 10002
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

From the article flea linked to:

Dr. Horrigan said there was anecdotal evidence that some members of a community use e-mail and the Internet "to keep up with people very close by." The Internet can help expand social networks, although the ties it creates are not as strong as those the Duke researchers are concerned with. Yet they can be useful.

His group's research has shown that the Internet is increasingly being used during life's "major moments" — to gather information or advice when making a big financial investment, deciding where to live, or choosing a college for a child. The research has shown that "people were more likely to get help through their social network" for those kinds of decisions.

Still, Dr. Putnam said, "The real interesting future is how can we use the Net to strengthen and deepen relationships that we have offline."

And in the end, she and others pointed out, e-mail or instant messaging is no substitute for face-to-face contact. "E-mailing somebody far way is not the same as them going to pick up your child at daycare or bringing you chicken soup," she said.

Someone oughtta write a book disputing this.