Jayne: That's a good idea. Good idea. Tell us where the stuff's at so I can shoot you. Mal: Point of interest? Offering to shoot us might not work so well as an incentive as you might imagine.

'Out Of Gas'


Natter 45: Smooth as Billy Dee Williams.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cass - Jun 24, 2006 10:00:39 pm PDT #3907 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Also, I'm eating apricot mango Greek yoghurt.
From TJ's? Not too sweet then? I'll pick some up.

Oddly, I think maybe I should have some food too.
Not if you have enough bubbly... IJS.

*sneeze* Love Portland. Would live [eta: love, though live is accurate too in the Fruedian.] it more if it weren't Pollenland as well.


Topic!Cindy - Jun 25, 2006 3:40:32 am PDT #3908 of 10002
What is even happening?

Oh, the flight won't be much stress at all. It's the packing ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING, the figuring out what I'll really need, inevitably forgetting something completely vital, trying to fit stuff into a few suitcases, worrying about missing the plane, worrying about the cat, worrying about being picked up at the other end, et cetera, et cetera.
But you're going to have to pack everything in one manner or another, anyhow.

In the suitcases, you pack what you need in way of clothing, shoes toiletries, cosmetics, etc. (that's "need" not "want"). Everything else gets boxed and shipped (ita's AmTrak seems a good way).

In my opinion, ita is completely right about tossing stuff. Really, I think it's the only way to move. Not counting college (which wasn't really about moving, so much as taking a lot of stuff, but probably not even half, really), I don't think I've ever moved further than 10 miles in one hop. That said, tossing did me more good than taking.

When you're in pack mode, make the cull question your first one. You ask yourself, "Is this important enough to pack, pay to move it, possibly pay to store it, unpack it, clean it off, and find a new place for it; or, do I want to toss it, and never have to worry about it, again?"

If you're ruthless about it, you'll get rid of all useless things, except the very most sentimental objects, and it will be sooooooooooo good.


brenda m - Jun 25, 2006 4:22:05 am PDT #3909 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

And the funny thing is, no matter how ruthless you are, once you're in the new place and unpacking boxes, there will still be tons of shit where you pull it out and go "I thought I needed that?"

Seriously, it's tough, but it can be done. What's worked best for me in the past in to try to do it in a couple of stages - go through things and sort into three groups, yes, no, and maybe. And then after a few days take another look at the maybe pile. IME, each time you look at it, there'll be a couple of things that you realize you don't really care so much about. Some thing you just need a little more time to process before you can make the break.


msbelle - Jun 25, 2006 4:41:51 am PDT #3910 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

running out, but I wanted to post.....images from my dreams last night

- jumping Halibut that leapt onto a ship and attacked me
- Jean Paul Gaultier: knowing my brother, not having an accent, taking me to a party
- working an event that required me to run up and down 5 flights of ramps every 10 minutes or so


Jesse - Jun 25, 2006 4:54:04 am PDT #3911 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm just as glad I don't usually remember my dreams.

Emily, lots of people have lots of good moving advice. I don't really have any, but moving as little stuff as possible does sound like the good plan. Last night, I was with a friend who is moving to Israel for the year, on Monday. She's wigging out about packing, too.


Jesse - Jun 25, 2006 5:14:04 am PDT #3912 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Hey! Guy Fieri's show is on Food Network! And he's making Tater Tots! Yay Guy.


Emily - Jun 25, 2006 6:17:31 am PDT #3913 of 10002
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

But you're going to have to pack everything in one manner or another, anyhow.

Well of course, but in the one case that means really packing really everything, and in the other it means really packing almost everything, and throwing the rest in the car at the last minute.

I spent several years moving every year. Trust me, I do know how to cull. I just also know that there's going to be a lot of fiddly crap that ends up in the essential pile that I hate hate hate to pack. Also, I have two old computers to dispose of. Blech.

(Edited because what I hate to do is PACK the fiddly crap. Moving it's relatively easy.)


brenda m - Jun 25, 2006 6:18:48 am PDT #3914 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

ION, Russ Feingold is rocking my world on Meet the Press. Catch the rerun if you can.


Topic!Cindy - Jun 25, 2006 6:21:49 am PDT #3915 of 10002
What is even happening?

And the funny thing is, no matter how ruthless you are, once you're in the new place and unpacking boxes, there will still be tons of shit where you pull it out and go "I thought I needed that?"

This is too true, brenda. I thougt I was ruthless when we moved here three years ago, then got her and rid myself of more.

Well of course, but in the one case that means really packing really everything, and in the other it means really packing almost everything, and throwing the rest in the car at the last minute.

I always count 'throwing the rest in the car at the last minute' as packing; it's just not as neat.

I just also know that there's going to be a lot of fiddly crap that ends up in the essential pile that I hate hate hate to move.
I hate that stuff.
Also, I have two old computers to dispose of. Blech.
What if they got left in the storage space, accidentally?


vw bug - Jun 25, 2006 6:23:24 am PDT #3916 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

What if they got left in the storage space, accidentally?

That means Val gets to deal with them. Thanks Cindy. Thought we were buds :).