Jayne (Husband): Oh, I think you might wanna reconsider that last part. See, I married me a powerful ugly creature. Mal (Wife): How can you say that? How can you shame me in front of new people? Jayne (Husband): If I could make you purtier, I would. Mal (Wife): You are not the man I met a year ago.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


F2F 4: Too Much Candy, Never Enough Mojitos.  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: Madison, WI from June 20-22 2008! Official website.


Aims - Apr 18, 2008 4:11:49 pm PDT #8291 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

7-11

How about 8-12?

And I'm sorry if I missed it, but the $1100 includes food and drinks?


Pix - Apr 18, 2008 4:32:13 pm PDT #8292 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Definitely 8 to 12. We never get our butts dressed by 7. They're much too cute (the butts) to be dressed hastily. Undressed, on the other hand...


SailAweigh - Apr 18, 2008 4:33:34 pm PDT #8293 of 10002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Yes, it does, Aims.

I need to verify what hours the private rooms are available for. GD is a bar/restaurant and bar close is 2am, here. That doesn't mean the rooms are available that late. I can't find anything in their party policy doc that says anything about that. Anway, if I reserve 8-12 and we have to be out of the room by 12, there's no fudge factor to keep the party going. If I reserve 7-11, and we decide to stay an extra hour because we have the money, it's doable. Also, if another party is scheduled in the room before us, say 6-8,that doesn't give us any slop factor either. I dunno, though. How early do people want prom to start? Does everyone want to do their own thing for dinner and then prom or would folks consider the 4 item pre-order menu for dinner before prom in the same room? I only asked for the party platter menu because every other F2F, folks have gone out on their own. But since it's something that would count toward the cost of the room, it's something we might want to consider.

I think too much. Bottom line, I don't know exactly what information will have to be hard and fast the next time I talk to Tim. I'd rather have more information at hand, than less. Food choices can wait, their documents say so. How much we want to put on the limited bar can wait, too. Timing, however, is less flexible. They'll want numbers right away for booking purposes. For our sake, 8-12 seems to have less flexibility built into it than 7-11.

ETA: Thus, I need your input! Tell me what y'all think.


Pix - Apr 18, 2008 6:40:25 pm PDT #8294 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

My only input is that most people showed up at 9 or later at the Proms I've been to. People tend to go out to dinner in big cat-herdy groups, come back, make themselves pretty, and finally show up late. Am I misunderstanding the room limitations? Why couldn't we say 8-12 and then extend to 1 if we wanted to? I doubt they'd close their private rooms before the bar closes, though I suppose it's possible. Ignore me if I am Not Helpful.


SailAweigh - Apr 18, 2008 9:06:28 pm PDT #8295 of 10002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

You are Kristin. I'm overthinking everything and trying to prepare for a million contingencies before they happen. I'm an overachiever in the worry department.

8-12, then.


javachik - Apr 18, 2008 9:18:51 pm PDT #8296 of 10002
Our wings are not tired.

Sail, seems to me like you're being an extremely thoughtful and prepared event planner!! Thank you for all of your work on this.


brenda m - Apr 18, 2008 11:05:59 pm PDT #8297 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

8 is the earliest I'd reserve us for. 8:30 would be my pref. Given that they have music etc, later, I think past twelve we'd be fine with overtaking the upper bar/dancing area. I'd also note that, while we do want some sort of eats, we tend to drink a lot more than we eat.


Vortex - Apr 19, 2008 5:52:07 am PDT #8298 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Yes, especially since most people tend to go out for dinner beforehand.


SailAweigh - Apr 19, 2008 7:05:45 am PDT #8299 of 10002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Oh, yeah. Everytime we've had eats, it's felt like we left much more than we ate. I don't even remember if we had any food at the F2F last year! We may have, but I just remember the drinking and dancing. And a lot of silly picture taking.

Any idea what a good dollar amount to put down on the bar would be? I mean, we have up to $1100 to spend on food and drink. That's a lot of drink.


-t - Apr 19, 2008 7:19:38 am PDT #8300 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

We did have some food last year, and then the party in the bigger room took a liking to us and said we could eat from their buffet. Probably shouldn't count on that always happening.