I am a large, semi-muscular man. I can take it. Don't hide behind Mal 'cause you know he'll shoot it down for you. Tell me.

Wash ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Connie Neil - Jun 13, 2006 4:54:44 pm PDT #9514 of 10002
brillig

Ooh! It could be a Chopin Liszt!

Ow.

Anyway, I had a wandering thought wander by and thought I'd wander here with it.

For those who have someone they frequently share a bed with for sleeping purposes, do you lay against each other in the night? I see all these ads and such of people snuggling against each other in blissful slumber, and all I can think is, "What, the other one doesn't twitch in their sleep? Is it the middle of January in the Arctic, and sharing heat is required for survival?"

Apparently I will reach for Hubby in my sleep if I'm having a bad dream, but on the whole, I like at least a foot between me and my beloved for sleeping purposes. I'm wondering if that makes me unloving or merely long-time married (twenty years tomorrow, boo-yah!)


sj - Jun 13, 2006 4:58:50 pm PDT #9515 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

For those who have someone they frequently share a bed with for sleeping purposes, do you lay against each other in the night? I see all these ads and such of people snuggling against each other in blissful slumber, and all I can think is, "What, the other one doesn't twitch in their sleep? Is it the middle of January in the Arctic, and sharing heat is required for survival?"

We do for the better part of the night.

We have been invaded by teeny tiny ants. We sprayed the doors and anywhere else we saw them, any other suggestions?


Scrappy - Jun 13, 2006 5:07:40 pm PDT #9516 of 10002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

We share a double bed and manage to do so without one single molecule of our bodies touching. Luckily neither of us can sleep with someone touching us, so we make a good match that way.


beekaytee - Jun 13, 2006 5:12:56 pm PDT #9517 of 10002
Compassionately intolerant

Fella is the first fella ever who understands and is completely okay with my sleep disorder. We cuddle at night, we cuddle in the morning, we cuddle in teh afternoon...but sleep? Separate beds baby! We can see each other (and I can hear his crazy snoring) but no touchy in the nighty. It works out really, really well.


-t - Jun 13, 2006 5:14:16 pm PDT #9518 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Sometimes we snugggle, sometimes we don't. I toss and turn like mad, which sometimes means more contact and sometimes less. It mostly doesn't disturb him.


P.M. Marc - Jun 13, 2006 5:15:31 pm PDT #9519 of 10002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Back in the days before co-sleeping, there was often snuggle. Especially when it wasn't summer.

Now it is a rare thing of great rareness what is rare.

Esp. as Lillian learned from the cats the fine art of taking up All The Room.


Polter-Cow - Jun 13, 2006 5:28:23 pm PDT #9520 of 10002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Coin-operated Teppy. Wind her up and watch her edit.

Coin-operated Tep
With her pretty coin-operated step
Wind and watch her edit
Then her magic head, it
Gives advice with pep
That is why I want a coin-operated Tep

I am eating mint chocolate chip ice cream.


beth b - Jun 13, 2006 5:35:16 pm PDT #9521 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

generally no touching while sleeping. Oddly, we now occassionally fall asleep snuggled, but wake up on our edges of the bed.


Ailleann - Jun 13, 2006 5:50:55 pm PDT #9522 of 10002
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

{{AmyLiz}}

Teppy has earwormed me with Coin-Operated Boy.

And then I read farther and P-C's got it too!!! t snogs P-C

I don't share my bed with anyone. Woes.

They played so much stuff from their first CD. Jason Wade is MIIIIIINE.

That album is awesome. Voice = GUH.


Polter-Cow - Jun 13, 2006 5:53:43 pm PDT #9523 of 10002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Woo! Ailleann snogs! I don't know you very well, but I suddenly REALLY LIKE YOU.