and my guess is that you consider me wrong.
In this instance yes. Though, so I'm clear, I'm not advocating that Gud leave either because I think his custody situation would be very difficult. It's not that he hasn't spent a lot of effort on his marriage - he has. She's been immovable.
All I offered was, if he does want to be with her, that he should realize the advice he will receive here will always defend him *against* her because he's our peeps and she is not.
That's true. I think that's even a given. We were very circumspect for a long time. But I really don't believe that we're getting a one-sided story from Gud. To the contrary he has continually taken blame for things which are really not his responsibility. And she's been consistently abusive. Verbally, emotionally. She's not very stable. She's not very nice.
The only place I really disagree with you is that I do think it is valuable for him to have a place to vent away from his marriage. It takes some pressure off. If he were not actively involved in working on his marriage with her - then I could see your point. But he has been.
David's post about Emmet's game, I understtod one word in ten. but I was still on the edge of my seat.
For Gud, I trust him well enough to know he should know that 1) we are on his side and 2) final decsions have nothing and I repeat NOTHING, with anyone else here. Some of us have really strong relationships, others less so. and some of us have had both. marriages, friendships, workstuff, etc, all fall apart at dfifferent rates and in different ways. I trust that anyone here can make that decsion on thier own. the words of Burell, or the words of Hec , may speak truer, because that is what is true for our own situation.
David's post about Emmet's game, I understtod one word in ten. but I was still on the edge of my seat.
It was like bizarro-land opera. Ten year old boys crying on the pitching mound and in the dugout. Heroes become goats, goats become heroes.
Can't sleep. Leg pain. Anyone up?
Punctuation all over the place.
Me, apparently, sj. And Harvey is purring up a storm.
Wacky, I am - got my days and nights mixed up from working an overnight shift, and either massively worse allergies, or a bit of a cold. But not bad, other than that.
Allergies suck. Sorry about the sleep confusion. When do you have to work again?
On Wednesday. So I have tomorrow to get myself straightened out.
Do you have much going on in the daytime?
