I think it has hit THFU temperatures here. It's 11PM, and I'm still sweating.
(THFU=Too Hot For Underwear)
Dawn ,'Sleeper'
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I think it has hit THFU temperatures here. It's 11PM, and I'm still sweating.
(THFU=Too Hot For Underwear)
Where's SuperPornyPants when you need her?
Apparently its too hot for me.
Apparently its too hot for me.
Pfft. You are made of the hot.
She listened carefully and nodded her head and said there were some cultural issues in conflict, but that frankly there was also some sheer fucked-upedness coming from P-C's family.
Well. Um. Sucks for me, I guess.
Aha! You need to set your sights on a nice British Asian chick!
I do dig the accents...
You could tell your mum you're going for the strong silent routine...but it doesn't sound like she's going to listen, so I'll just shut up with my Helpful Suggestions.
I feel like My Mom's Version of Me and My Version of Me are akin to a polarizing issue in fandom: neither side's going to change its opinion, no matter what the other side says.
When I finally did, I felt like you were a bit displeased with me, but maybe that's part of the whole quiet thing.
Oh, no, I'm terribly sorry if I gave you that impression! I was just surprised to see you; I didn't know you were coming. Plus the Wonder Woman thing threw me off.
Apparently its too hot for me.
Fans cool air furiously in Trudy's direction.
Waits expectantly for porn.
Ponders. Has Trudy gone to sleep yet? Am I too late?
Well. Um. Sucks for me, I guess.
No. That means you get to set some of your own boundaries about what you'll put up with. And you don't have to sever or even risk your family connections to do that.
You can negotiate with you Mom like this. "Mom, I'm not getting married this year. I'm probably - but who knows - not getting married next year. You're making me miserable asking about it all the time. When I'm ready, we can talk about it. I want and trust your input. But I'm 24 - there's time. I'm just starting my career. That's my focus. I know you're freaked out, but just trust me a little. Also? I'm not getting married this year, so shush."
With you Uncle...move out. It's no fun living with an arch-conservative who's whaling on your cousin.
is learning that too hot for others is just right for me.
skips MN in fanning cool air to buffistas.
What David said (typo that was tempting to keep in? Typed "Shat" instead of "What"). I wish I'd set boundaries earlier. I would have been happier. Learn from my middle-aged wisdom! You can love your family and yet admit that they're driving you crazy. Set boundaries. Protect yourself. Sometimes that even makes the relationship with the family better. But at the least it will make your experience in life better. Ah, sanity.