You know, it's funny. We went to war never looking to come back, but it's the real world I couldn't survive.

Tracy ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SailAweigh - May 29, 2006 7:20:17 am PDT #6562 of 10002
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Not having been to Portland, I can't chime in with either pros or cons for it. Between SF and LA, I'd say go SF. Better public transport and more, I don't want to say cosmopolitan, but it feels more like a European city to me and I like that about it. Plus, as more than one person has attested, if you don't like the weather, wait 15 minutes.


Lee - May 29, 2006 7:22:13 am PDT #6563 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

My landlord is pretty slow about depositing the rent checks-- he usually does so about the 7th or 8th of the month. On May 10th, I discovered he hadn't cashed mine yet, and had to go ask him about it, since I thought I had probably given him mine, but honestly didn't remember.

He'd forgotten about needing to deposit them.


Steph L. - May 29, 2006 7:25:55 am PDT #6564 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Oh, Steph. That's too freaking funny. And totally something I would do.

As soon as I discovered it, I had to send these repentant letters, saying "I'm so sorry, I'd appreciate it if you could waive any late fees, here's my payment, grovel grovel grovel."


meara - May 29, 2006 7:27:53 am PDT #6565 of 10002

I vote Portland, because I want to move there. :)


Anne W. - May 29, 2006 7:32:03 am PDT #6566 of 10002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

makes plans to start pimping St. Louis as a good place for Buffistas to reside


vw bug - May 29, 2006 7:35:50 am PDT #6567 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

I feel like a big fat dope...but a happy one.

Almost four years ago, I packed up my apartment, moved in with my parents, then in September, moved to the Boston area. I packed both suitcases with enough clothes to last me till I got to Boston.

I also packed up my favorite jewelry in a ziplock bag, and stuck it in the suitcase.

When I got to Boston, I unpacked everything in my new room, and was devistated, because I had lost my favorite pieces of jewelry.

I just found them. In the suitcase I took to San Francisco. I have no idea how many times I've used that suitcase in the last four years. But, I'm thrilled to have the jewelry back.


sumi - May 29, 2006 7:35:57 am PDT #6568 of 10002
Art Crawl!!!

Teppy -- that is so something I would do -- which is EXACTLY why I try to pay my bills online as much as possible.

And it's 89 degrees here and it's not even NOON.


Scrappy - May 29, 2006 7:38:59 am PDT #6569 of 10002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

What a great surprise, vw! It's like new jewelry that is ALREADY your favorite!


vw bug - May 29, 2006 7:40:12 am PDT #6570 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

I KNOW!

Most of it is cheap stuff that I just really liked. BUT, it also holds my Tiffany's bracelet that I adore.


Typo Boy - May 29, 2006 7:46:20 am PDT #6571 of 10002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Having lived in Portland and LA (but not SF) I can tell you that Portland combines a major small town feel with a fairly urban environment - decent variety of ethnic food, though not up to SF, decent variety of culture - though not up to SF. (Up to the LA I knew, but my LA knowledge is too many decades out of date to useful.) Also - though good on the shopping and resteraunt thing - not anything like as multi-cultural as LA or SF. It has great public transit. It has powells and that is a mega-cool bookstore. Plus a fair number of other indendet bookstores. Not really making a case over SF am I? Advantages over SF - lower cost living, and I'll bet the small town feel is smaller cause it is a smaller city than SF. SF has a much higher numbers of buffistas including JZ and Hecubot and Deborah Grabien as well. I think we have two Portland Buffistas, but have not checked map lately.