d - you got lots of good advice last night. As a parent of a teen, I have to echo what Cash said about rather hearing the news from the kid rather than someone else. Depending on your relationship with the boy, after the birth control mention, you might toss something like - you know your mother and I talk and I'm sure she would rather hear about last night from you than from me. Not a threat, but just an "I won't cover for you" notice. Again, this all depends on your relationship with the two of them.
Mal: Hell, this job I would pull for free. Zoe: Can I have your share? Mal: No. Zoe: If you die, can I have your share? Mal: Yes.
'The Train Job'
Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
SuziQ - May 13, 2006 5:39:21 am PDT #4477 of 10002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
vw bug - May 13, 2006 5:45:04 am PDT #4478 of 10002
Mostly lurking...
Well, huh. It looks like since I went below half-time this semester, I get to start paying back my loans. Sarting June 7. I've already used up my grace period. I think I can call and get it deferred, and then when I start school again in the fall, they'll automatically be deferred. Ugh. Guess I'm gonna have to make some phone calls on Monday.
Cass - May 13, 2006 5:49:48 am PDT #4479 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Ugh. Guess I'm gonna have to make some phone calls on Monday.Oh bother.
I've been up long enough now that going back to sleep is more of a nap, but I am remarkably okay with that.
Strix - May 13, 2006 5:57:31 am PDT #4480 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
vw, it's supereasy to defer. Just call, they'll send you the paper. Easy-easy.
Jessica - May 13, 2006 6:02:35 am PDT #4481 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
Ugh. Guess I'm gonna have to make some phone calls on Monday.
Ugh indeed. Hope Emily's right about the easy deferral process.
And, um, thanks for all the lovely compliments last night, but....all I got was a haircut. I haven't changed my haircolor. It's just really faded right now.
vw bug - May 13, 2006 6:02:50 am PDT #4482 of 10002
Mostly lurking...
Yeah...it's just I suck at actually filling out the paperwork. But, I'll try really hard to be better about it. I need to get it taken care of quickly, though, so it's figured out before the first payment.
Nora Deirdre - May 13, 2006 6:07:50 am PDT #4483 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
I have to write 2 final exam essays. Now. (well, this weekend) Argh.
Also, it is muthafucking POURING outside.
Also, I am now on vacation. Though until I finish these essays, it doesn't feel like vacation.
vw bug - May 13, 2006 6:09:22 am PDT #4484 of 10002
Mostly lurking...
Also, it is muthafucking POURING outside.
YUP! Good reason to stay in and work on those essays so you don't go to the grocery store DRENCHED like I was. (No, really, I had to squeeze out my pants.)
-t - May 13, 2006 6:12:58 am PDT #4485 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
You might be able to apply for a deferment online, vw. If your loan holder offers that service.
I'm torn between thinking it's totally punk rock and AWESOME and thinking no, it's just the outward symbol of my inner laziness and something I should fix
Dude, having an outward symbol of your inner laziness is totally punk rock and awesome! Especially if it's green hair.
The outward symbol of my inner laziness is mostly split ends. Not nearly as sexy.
Finish your essays so you can be all WHEEE-VACATION, Nora.
brenda m - May 13, 2006 6:14:00 am PDT #4486 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Depending on your relationship with the boy, after the birth control mention, you might toss something like - you know your mother and I talk and I'm sure she would rather hear about last night from you than from me. Not a threat, but just an "I won't cover for you" notice. Again, this all depends on your relationship with the two of them.
Again, all depending on your relationship of course, but how old is the kid in question? I don't know - my gut reaction to all this is: not my business. Unless you do really consider the mother a friend - I didn't see that in the post, but if so that's obviously different. But if not - I'm not sure why you would say anything anyway.