Well, if we followed the recipe...should be cake. A demon-violence-free-zone cake.

Lorne ,'Why We Fight'


Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


§ ita § - May 02, 2006 11:45:16 am PDT #2352 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Oh, that's a lovely dress!


Atropa - May 02, 2006 11:46:48 am PDT #2353 of 10002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Oh, that's a lovely dress!

See, I knew you'd like it a lot, ita.

(Oh, and it's available at the same price through amazon. Ordering books and dresses together makes me very happy.)


§ ita § - May 02, 2006 12:18:35 pm PDT #2354 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm now interested in dresses that aren't going out dresses. I have a million of those (and rarely go out). I think orthoepy's Dress A Day kicked it off, and you feed it, Jilli. I've been looking at a lot of retro stuff recently, but the sizes are limited, and it's frustrating.

eta: The sash is removable.


Atropa - May 02, 2006 12:44:57 pm PDT #2355 of 10002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I've been looking at a lot of retro stuff recently, but the sizes are limited, and it's frustrating.

I know. Plus, finding stuff that doesn't scream rockabilly or '50s housewife? Difficult.

eta: The sash is removable.

Yay! Well, I'll post a review once I get it.


Spidra Webster - May 02, 2006 12:58:40 pm PDT #2356 of 10002
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Howdy, Deena! Glad the new neighborhood has some kids for your kids.

Had the second interview. Really seemed almost like a formality. I think I would like all the people that work there and I especially like the director. We got to the portion of the interview where I got to ask them questions again and I asked if they had anyone else at the second interview stage. They said yes and that they were waiting to hear from him. So if I hadn't asked that question, I would have said it looked like they were going with me. As it is, looks like I'm a strong second place.

The reason I've gotten this far, I think, is that the last guy left for more money and advancement opportunities. The seriously tech-y people don't stay because the university will never pay competitively for the industry. All the folks in this department, even the programmers, are kind of atypical techies. They're well-rounded and came to tech through the back door. So my "strength" is that they don't think I'll leave for greener pastures real soon. But my weakness is that I'm not as deep as they'd like in a couple areas, esp. PC support.

Although I want the job more now than I did before the first interview, I can still see advantages and disadvantages of the job. If I get it, I'll focus on the advantages and if I don't get it, I'll focus on the disadvantages.

But I really need to find more job prospects to apply for. I haven't been seeing a lot that turns me on that I'm qualified for or that pays enough.


amych - May 02, 2006 1:10:13 pm PDT #2357 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

All the folks in this department, even the programmers, are kind of atypical techies. They're well-rounded and came to tech through the back door.

That's pretty typical for higher-ed IT types -- they're some of my favorite people, but then, I am one!

continuing ~ma, whether it's for this job or something that floats your boat even more.


Sparky1 - May 02, 2006 1:10:29 pm PDT #2358 of 10002
Librarian Warlord

Spidra, I have a love/hate relationship with the U, but I'm committed to the academic life (love) so underpaid is what I will always be (hate). I can't believe that you wouldn't be able to use the voice recognition software on campus -- the place is pretty good about ergonomics and accomodations. I made furniture with which I was comfortable a requirement for accepting my position.


Spidra Webster - May 02, 2006 1:18:34 pm PDT #2359 of 10002
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Well, I have learned never to bring up disability until the job is offered. It's very hard to prove discrimination otherwise. Even if you're dead sure that's what it was. But, yeah, my UCSF friend said I should just mention it when I'm at HR filling in forms and getting oriented. If that should come to pass.

Underpaid can be relative. I've been underpaid almost all of my adult life and grossly underpaid in my last job. The lowest end of what a PA1 position pays is already about 5k more than I was making. But when they asked me what salary I was hoping for, I went 3k above what I'm shooting for, to allow some room for me to negotiate me down, if that's what they want/need to do. I felt very nervous asking for that because I'm not the most assertive thing in the world. But whereas I took my last job thinking that while I was starting low I'd soon prove my worth to them and earn raises, I soon found out how wrong I was. So better to start at what you really want because there may not be any raises coming.

The department culture sounds great, though. That's the biggest job attractor for me.


Aims - May 02, 2006 1:25:44 pm PDT #2360 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

is bored at work

takes off shirt, runs through thread

( . )( . )

is bored again


Aims - May 02, 2006 1:31:06 pm PDT #2361 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

My boobs killed the thread. Fabulous. That's the second time today I've killed a thread with boobies. I'ma go over there and do a crossword puzzle. I can take a hint.