You never know if a girl's gonna say 'yes', or if she's gonna laugh in your face and pull out your still-beating heart and crush it into the ground with her heel.

Xander ,'Help'


Natter .44 Magnum: Do You Feel Chatty, Punk?  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


msbelle - May 18, 2006 12:05:34 pm PDT #8055 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Sophia, I would seriously look at getting a job that paid as much or more for the same amount of time or less. Bonus if it was a job that gave you a discount on anything you need to buy on a regular.

Or any chance you could get a new job at the uni that would be a pay jump and cover that extra $400/month?

Sorry if I am being a bug, I am sitting here just killing time today. More time than sense.


Sophia Brooks - May 18, 2006 12:20:12 pm PDT #8056 of 10002
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Sorry if I am being a bug, I am sitting here just killing time today. More time than sense.

No bother-- I sort of like talking it out. I would need to make $1 more per hour, but my next move up would make me salaried (yes at less than $30K, so I might be looking at more time!). I like my job, but there are no merit raises at this department, only the standard 2%, which means I will get a 25 cent raise this June-- so in 4 years I will make $400 more a month!. But I like my job and have been here less than a year, and these people are quite sane. There is talk that if my boss and I clear $1.4 million next year, they might raise me up a level to "administrative assistant"

What would be the smart thing to do is to try and get a comparable job at another college in town, and then cash out my retirement to pay off my credit cards. It is the $%^#&! credit cards causing the whoole money crunch thing. Otherwise, I could live quite comfortably on what I make.

  • **Public Service Announcement to the youngsters here****

Do not use credit cards. Do not use them to pay for your books in college, take out another college loan. Do not use them to pay for car emegancies so you don't have to tell your mother. Do not use them to pay your living expenses when you only make $10,000 a year and don't want to move back home. Do not use them to pay off other people's debt!!! Most importantly, do not use them to fund theatre productions so that your costumes look the way you want on a $100 budget


juliana - May 18, 2006 12:25:07 pm PDT #8057 of 10002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Announcement: I am physically incapable of not singing along to "Jack and Diane" when it comes on the radio.

Analysis: I am a total dork.


Pix - May 18, 2006 12:25:15 pm PDT #8058 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Do not use credit cards. Do not use them to pay for your books in college, take out another college loan. Do not use them to pay for car emegancies so you don't have to tell your mother. Do not use them to pay your living expenses when you only make $10,000 a year and don't want to move back home. Do not use them to pay off other people's debt!!! Most importantly, do not use them to fund theatre productions so that your costumes look the way you want on a $100 budget

Sophia is me in poor life choices with credit cards.


Kathy A - May 18, 2006 12:32:34 pm PDT #8059 of 10002
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Oh, God yes! Main credit card recommendation to college kids in particular--no matter how much the company reps say it's a good idea, do NOT get a credit card when in college, especially not one with a $2500 limit, especially when you're only bringing home about $40 a week from your part-time job at the campus library. You'll end up maxing it out on stupid weekend runs to the corner Walgreens and pizza deliveries, and end up really in debt when you graduate and add the car loan and college loan payments to the living expenses you didn't have to pay for before you graduated.


Sophia Brooks - May 18, 2006 12:35:09 pm PDT #8060 of 10002
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I had a friend who planned on maxing out his cards in college, then declaring bankruptcy at 22, which means he would be cleared by the time he was in his 30's. I have no idea if this actually happened.


msbelle - May 18, 2006 12:36:19 pm PDT #8061 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Sophia, have you done the debt consolidation thing?


§ ita § - May 18, 2006 12:37:45 pm PDT #8062 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I had a friend who planned on maxing out his cards in college

What's worth maxing them out on at that point? I don't think there was anything worth that I wanted then, and even if it was worth bankruptcy, I doubt I'd have been able to afford it on the credit I could have gotten.

However, I did kinda abuse them once I started working in the US, because I was living above my budget, and couldn't work out how to stop.


Spidra Webster - May 18, 2006 12:39:17 pm PDT #8063 of 10002
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Sophia, are you a member of The Costumer's Manifesto yahoogroup list? There are many professional and amateur theater costumers on that list and I'm sure they'd be happy to be a sounding board for some of the decisions you're trying to make (in addition to the Buffistas who are eager to be sounding boards).


Sue - May 18, 2006 12:39:28 pm PDT #8064 of 10002
hip deep in pie

I've never been bad with credit cards, (I'm way too paranoid to use them crazily) but my student loans got me in trouble when I was a starving artist.