(that's not flirting.)
At krav it might be.
eta: Heh!
If you take sexual advantage of her, you're going to burn in a very special level of hell. A level they reserve for child molesters and people who talk at the theater.
Book ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
§ ita § - Apr 06, 2006 2:56:12 pm PDT #9328 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
juliana - Apr 06, 2006 2:57:47 pm PDT #9329 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
But I am prepared to make a sworn affidavit that juliana can flirt like a motherfucker.
Yay!!
(Why else do you think I was so popular in North Beach after only 3 weeks?)
msbelle - Apr 06, 2006 2:57:54 pm PDT #9330 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
My biggest issue wrt flirting vs. hitting on, was the receiver thinking the former was the later.
What was described up above by both ita and erin was almost always interpreted as having intent. No way you do that and not have many men I know not think you wanna hook-up.
And for me anyway, flirting loses all fun when a guy I don't wanna sleep with starts acting like the hook-up is ON.
Strix - Apr 06, 2006 3:01:09 pm PDT #9331 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Hmm. That can be a problem. I usually make it so eye-rollingly OBVIOUS that most guys pick up on it.
And I usually can pick up with the first few flirty pitches if a guy (or gal -- I'm an equal-op flirter) will Get It, or start slavering and whinging.
Sometimes I'm wrong, but at this point in my life, not often. And I save hard-core full-on-filth flirting to old pals.
DavidS - Apr 06, 2006 3:17:27 pm PDT #9332 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
(Why else do you think I was so popular in North Beach after only 3 weeks?)
Seriously, have you seen yourself in the mirror? Sworn affidavit to your buckets of charm and full-on mad flirty skills, but Great Beauty doesn't hurt.
And I save hard-core full-on-filth flirting to old pals.
::is even more sad Erin's not coming to the F2F::
Lee - Apr 06, 2006 3:33:04 pm PDT #9333 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
Jesus. Two people died today in Caltrain (the commuter train that runs between San Francisco to Gilroy) accidents-- one person committed suicide, and the other was a kid crossing the tracks at the wrong time. [link]
§ ita § - Apr 06, 2006 3:46:25 pm PDT #9334 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Guys I know never seem to think I'll sleep with them, so I can flirt away. Unless I want to sleep with them-see above re inertia.
sarameg - Apr 06, 2006 3:59:32 pm PDT #9335 of 10001
Most of my flirting (which I haven't done in awhile . It's exhausting for me) has been safe/limited. As in, my friends or my friends' flirty husbands (which I guess is just teasing/banter but it's the same back-and-forth.) Last time I seriously flirted with a nonsafer surprised me with the response. Still fun, but dude, I so did not see that coming. Which makes me laugh at myself now, because ...so predictable. And yet, I still never knew what hit me.
msbelle - Apr 06, 2006 4:01:24 pm PDT #9336 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I had a freecycler come get some stuff from me tonight. YAY! I also got teh pet stroller I bought off ebay and discovered it partially broken, not fully assembled and with no instructions. An email has been sent to the seller. I am kinda hoping for a full refund, cause as much as I want one of these, now that I see this one up close, I am not sure it is the right one for me.
sarameg - Apr 06, 2006 4:07:07 pm PDT #9337 of 10001
That's too bad, msbelle, both on the crappy condition and it not being the right sort. Maybe we should engineer a granny cart that hold carriers. I've got at least one spare!