On the flipside of that, girl I pined for in highschool that I ended up having a relationship with much later, was like-wise oblivious at the time. When we finally got together years later, we were talking about our highschool days and I confessed to my crush on her back then and she was taken aback. She then went and asked everyone that had known us both back then that she was still in contact with and they all said "Yeah, I knew that. How did you not know?" Including her mother. Which we both found kind of funny.
'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
Also, has this been answered this before?
Because, um, I'm leaving, I'm so very, very tempted to tell one of our AEs that I am not a graphic designer, and her requests are inappropriate.
I think I even can phrase this diplomatically.
erika is also me.
I feel validated in the knowledge that, not only do I never know when somebody is hitting on me, I never know when somebody is hitting on anybody else.
Equal cluelessness for everybody!
I need big poster-cards with capital-letters and pointy arrows on them, and possibly a cheering section (face-painting, costumes, and pregame tailgating optional).
Thinking you're Neuter Girl, not so FG.
No. Really not.
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
IMO, a sexual harassment lawsuit.
IMO, a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Ha!
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
I flirt, but I never hit on. Flirting is the playful badinage that acknowledges sexual possibility. Doesn't have to have a whit of intent. I flirt with guys at the krav centre all the time. Hitting on means you actually want to do something about that, and ita don't play that. Well, hasn't. I don't think.
I do, in general, consider myself quite Neuter Girl. I don't even get flirted with much, much less hit on by people who aren't random strangers.
I'm so very, very tempted to tell one of our AEs that I am not a graphic designer, and her requests are inappropriate.
Dooooooooo iiiiiiiiiiiit.
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
For me - and this is Only Me - flirting is not always with intent. I can comfortably flirt with a wide range of people, and it's rarely serious. Hitting on is much like (verbalizing) ita's "You. Let's." with a "Now" often added in.