erika is also me.
Xander ,'Lessons'
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erika is also me.
I feel validated in the knowledge that, not only do I never know when somebody is hitting on me, I never know when somebody is hitting on anybody else.
Equal cluelessness for everybody!
I need big poster-cards with capital-letters and pointy arrows on them, and possibly a cheering section (face-painting, costumes, and pregame tailgating optional).
Thinking you're Neuter Girl, not so FG.
No. Really not.
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
IMO, a sexual harassment lawsuit.
IMO, a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Ha!
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
I flirt, but I never hit on. Flirting is the playful badinage that acknowledges sexual possibility. Doesn't have to have a whit of intent. I flirt with guys at the krav centre all the time. Hitting on means you actually want to do something about that, and ita don't play that. Well, hasn't. I don't think.
I do, in general, consider myself quite Neuter Girl. I don't even get flirted with much, much less hit on by people who aren't random strangers.
I'm so very, very tempted to tell one of our AEs that I am not a graphic designer, and her requests are inappropriate.
Dooooooooo iiiiiiiiiiiit.
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
For me - and this is Only Me - flirting is not always with intent. I can comfortably flirt with a wide range of people, and it's rarely serious. Hitting on is much like (verbalizing) ita's "You. Let's." with a "Now" often added in.
I think I even can phrase this diplomatically.
No You are asking the wrong person, BITCH then?
I'm oblivious to signals. Of course, even if I were to pick up on them, I'd likely ignore them.
When I was single it always took getting to the grab-kiss-what? moment before the light bulb went off.
yep. I will be forever greatful to my friend Mattheus for just swooping in and kissing me in the middle of a sentence, because I never would have had any idea that he was interested.
For me, hitting on is flirting with intent.
What's the difference between flirting and hitting on?
I'd like to know this as well. I mean, I get the gyst. Flirting is more for fun, while hitting on is more serious, but my brain isn't really wired that way. If there's no interest, I don't really flirt.