I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Literary Buffistas 3: Don't Parse the Blurb, Dear.

There's more to life than watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer! No. Really, there is! Honestly! Here's a place for Buffistas to come and discuss what it is they're reading, their favorite authors and poets. "Geez. Crack a book sometime."


JZ - Jan 09, 2012 12:14:16 pm PST #17392 of 28267
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

The textbook quoted extensively from Lewis.

Then the textbook is way better than the reading list!

And I just thought of two picture books for children that deal with the subject very movingly (surely better than the damn Notebook!):

Annie and the Old One

The Two of Them


megan walker - Jan 09, 2012 12:17:46 pm PST #17393 of 28267
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

So, I have an assignment for class. I must choose and read a book (fiction or non-fiction) related to grief and bereavement.

Joy Luck Club


ChiKat - Jan 09, 2012 12:23:04 pm PST #17394 of 28267
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Marley and Me


megan walker - Jan 09, 2012 12:35:22 pm PST #17395 of 28267
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

I'd prefer Sarah's Key to Winter Garden.

Let the Great World Spin has multiple storylines about grief.

There's Revolution, which is bad history, but good writing. I thought the opening, which deals more with grief/bereavement than the rest, was really good.


megan walker - Jan 09, 2012 12:40:15 pm PST #17396 of 28267
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Oh duh, one of my favorites, John Irving's A Widow for One Year. Actually probably any Irving. Or any Amy Tan.

Also, Paul Auster's The Book of Illusions.


Sue - Jan 09, 2012 12:52:00 pm PST #17397 of 28267
hip deep in pie

Isn't The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion supposed to be very good?

It is very good. And more straightforward than Blue Nights, which is also about memory and aging.

There's also About Alice by Calvin Trillan.


Kate P. - Jan 09, 2012 12:58:53 pm PST #17398 of 28267
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I must choose and read a book (fiction or non-fiction) related to grief and bereavement.

Her suggestions: Making Rounds With Oscar, Winter Garden, The Help, Watering the Elephants, Any Jody Picoult Book, The Notebook, Bed Number 10

I will admit to being skeptical of this list. Anyone have any ideas?

Yeah, that is a weird list! There are so many books about grief and bereavement, I don't even know where to start. I mean, it's one of the most common themes in literature. Anyway, a couple of 2011 nonfic books that come to mind: Joyce Carol Oates, A Widow's Story; Meghan O'Rourke, The Long Goodbye; Julian Barnes, Nothing to be Frightened Of (though I think that one might be more specifically about death than grief itself).

Also, off the top of my head, probably half of Anne Tyler's books are about dealing with grief and loss, among other things. Morgan's Passing is the first one that comes to mind, but I seem to recall it's a major theme in many of her other books too.


askye - Jan 09, 2012 2:07:39 pm PST #17399 of 28267
Thrive to spite them

I recommend Tear Soup. It's a picture book about grieving, explaining it to children but it's really good for adults too.

The main character has lost someone close (never says who) and it goes to explain that some days are harder than others, and sometimes people don't know what to say to someone who is grieving. it talks about how everyone grieves differently and how it never goes away.


Ginger - Jan 09, 2012 2:17:15 pm PST #17400 of 28267
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

There's also About Alice by Calvin Trillan.

I sobbed all the way through About Alice, because I had read all his books and felt like I knew them.

Madeleine L'Engle's Two-Part Invention, about her marriage and her husband's death, is excellent.


Rayne - Jan 09, 2012 2:54:06 pm PST #17401 of 28267
"Oh no! Has falling sky liquid once again caused you the sadness?" -Starfire

Sarah's Key would definitely work, though parts of it feels very much like a Hallmark movie.

Also The Book Thief. The story is told by Death, but it's about a young girl dealing with the death of her brother.