We usually call to see how the other one is doing

I think what boggles me about it is that, if I were to call Hypothetical Relationship Person at work to see how he's doing, all I can think is that it would annoy the living hell out of him.

It's why I don't call The Boy as often as he calls me -- I can't shake the feeling that I'm an inconvenience until explicitly told otherwise.

I know, I know. Not enough therapy in the WORLD.

Nah, Tep, I'm with you.

mr. flea and I talk on the phone at work once on most days. He and Casper are both usually asleep when I leave for work, so it goes, "Did she wake up happy or pissy, and when? What's she wearing? Are you working from home or work today? Assorted logistical day-care pickup conversation, depending on answer to the above. Will you be home for dinner, do you think?"

If either of us is having a particularly craptastic day, that can warrant a second call.

if I were to call Hypothetical Relationship Person at work to see how he's doing, all I can think is that it would annoy the living hell out of him.

And some days, it does. Both of us have been known to say "I'm fine, I'm working, I'll talk you you later." But mostly, it's nice. Or we're crazy. Take your pick.

Married/en-coupled folk, I've asked this before, but I can't remember your answers -- is this typical? Or calling even once a day during the work day?

When we're both at work, we'll talk several times a week. Usually about something, as opposed to "I wuv oo" type conversations.

Though when we first got together, T called me at work as often as Jane Fonda called Robert Redford in Barefoot in the Park.

Jane: Did you miss me?
Robert: How could I? You called me seven times!

mr. flea and I talk on the phone at work once on most days. He and Casper are both usually asleep when I leave for work, so it goes, "Did she wake up happy or pissy, and when? What's she wearing? Are you working from home or work today? Assorted logistical day-care pickup conversation, depending on answer to the above. Will you be home for dinner, do you think?"

Actually, logistics and kids make perfect sense to me in terms of Reasons To Call.

I think I may just be a crankaboo.

DH and I work together, but when we are not both in the office we talk often. When he is out of town he calls several times a day. He knows I hate the phone so he makes it brief. I email him a lot, a whole lot.

Well, I'm off to go hear what a terrible person I am.

I beg to differ.

I dumped my home phone and changed my cell to that number. I love this. Now when teachers, or doctors, or my family, or anyone I care about calls my home number it rings in my purse. I worship the parties reponsible for caller id. If I don't know who is calling, or if I don't feel like talking, leave a message. My phone is for my convenience.

I used to have a co-worker who was on the phone to her daughter almost CONSTANTLY.

This is the daughter who still lived at home AND commuted to work with her mother.

Joe and I talk a lot on the phone during the day. Like others have said, Ellie and I are asleep when he leaves, so he usually calls to say good morning at a more normal time. He also calls me towards the end of the day so I know when I'll be home. And we usually call each other if something notable has happened during the day (i.e. one of us resolves an issue the other was worried about/working on). I used to wish he would call me less, but most days I'm very happy to talk to him, even if it's only for a few minutes.

When the kids were younger, I'd usually talk to the DH at least once a day. We split taking/picking up the kids so we'd have to do the logistics/info phone call mid-morning. Now that the kids are older, we don't talk during working hours on most days. Although there are some days where we talk 3 or 4 times.

If either of us is having a particularly craptastic day, that can warrant a second call.

Oh yeah!