That is awful, lisa. My condolences to you and your family.
It might be Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. My baby brother died of SIDS. I don't know if it's the same as it was then but the Guild for Infant Survival (not an anti-choice group, despite the sound of the name) was where my mom went for peer support for a couple years after. Then she became involved with volunteering herself. I don't know where your SIL's sister is located, but you can probably find a local-ish chapter near her.
Oh, lisah, that's awful and none of my words seem adequate.
Oh, lisah, I am so sorry. That's just so unfair, so heartbreaking. {{{{{your entire family, but especially the parents}}}}}
Oh lisah, my thoughts are with you and your family.
I feel like such a dope. I came to post some recent pics of CJ and his new haircut. Here they are, but I feel weird posting them now, so trivial.
lisah, I'm so sorry. All peace and strength to his family.
Oh, lisah, what a nightmare. Those poor people.
{{{{{{{{lisah&SiL'sFam}}}}}}}}
Jess, great hair, definitely worth the effort to find out stylist's name.
{{MG}} pics of CJ - not a trivial post. Is a good thing.