Buffy: How bored were you last year? Giles: I watched 'Passions' with Spike. Let us never speak of it.

'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Feb 09, 2006 6:31:28 pm PST #8343 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Ah, geez, Gud. I am glad the financial situation is better at least.


billytea - Feb 09, 2006 6:32:41 pm PST #8344 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Maybe self-hate is the wrong term for me. I'm just mad at myself for messing up a lot of things, I don't really think that I'm a terrible person.

I really feel for you, Gud.


juliana - Feb 09, 2006 6:34:28 pm PST #8345 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

the thing that really did the most for my own feelings of self-loathing was getting divorced.

Huh. I'm right there with you, billytea. That really was the catalyst to me making a lot of positive changes and being able to act on some things about myself.

It's not a course of action I'd recommend, though.


Trudy Booth - Feb 09, 2006 6:37:53 pm PST #8346 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

7. Got an invitation to my sister's wedding, which is nice. (Not unexpected, you understand.)

Mazel tov!

She marrying her baby daddy?

t snuggles Gud chastely


billytea - Feb 09, 2006 6:38:51 pm PST #8347 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Huh. I'm right there with you, billytea. That really was the catalyst to me making a lot of positive changes and being able to act on some things about myself.

Have I mentioned how glad I am that SF is working out so well for you? You really need the good things in your life right now, and I'm glad things are coming together.


Cass - Feb 09, 2006 6:40:55 pm PST #8348 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Have I mentioned how glad I am that SF is working out so well for you?
I was just thinking this very same thing.


billytea - Feb 09, 2006 6:40:58 pm PST #8349 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

She marrying her baby daddy?

Nope, some other guy. He meets with the approval of her siblings, though. He's a really nice guy, and he's very good with Andrew, who adores him. (We all remain amazed that he's willing to marry our sister.)


Aims - Feb 09, 2006 6:42:22 pm PST #8350 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I have FABULOUS nape.

I attempting pics - the Batpooter isn't cooperating. Obviously, I'm too hot.


meara - Feb 09, 2006 6:42:37 pm PST #8351 of 10001

Gotta say, wanna snuggle a lot of Bitches in here tonight! (Please note, earlier reference to crazy people was not meant to reference anyone HERE)

"what are the benefits of therapy and what are the downsides?"

Well, I feel like it's hard to say what the benefits would be, since I've never done it! I mean...I know I'm not perfect now. But I never know if it's a normal amount of fucked-up or not, y'know? Would I somehow be cooler/happier/more likely to get a date if I had therapy? Who the heck knows? Can I be happy/cool/dating without therapy? Sure, but...?


billytea - Feb 09, 2006 6:43:11 pm PST #8352 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I was just thinking this very same thing.

Cass! Have I mentioned how very glad I am that Portland is working out for you? Because I'm not! You've broken up the whole SD Zoo/Wild Animal Park/PenguinWorldSeaWorld/Cassiepants package deal I had going. And for what? Your personal happiness and fulfilment?

t grumble Kids these days, I tell ya.