what's it going to take for me to stop hating myself?
Oh, honey. I'm with you.
Angel: Eve. So, I guess we should, I don't know, talk? Eve: About what? Angel: About what happened back there with us. Eve: Angel, it's not like this is the first time I've had sex under a mystical influence. I went to U.C. Santa Cruz.
'Life of the Party'
Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Steph L. - Feb 09, 2006 11:59:00 am PST #8239 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Gudanov - Feb 09, 2006 12:02:32 pm PST #8240 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
I have self self-hatred issues too. I feel like I'm fucked up my marriage, my house is a mess, my finances are a mess (they are getting better though, so less of an issue), I'm overweight, etc...
Ok, now I'm bummed.
Laura - Feb 09, 2006 12:04:33 pm PST #8241 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.
Sometimes I look in the mirror and think "I hate myself", just like anybody else.
Except for the whole avoiding mirrors like the plague part, I'm there with you too. Most everyone I know has these days, and the rest probably just don't admit to them.
Can't do anything to keep any of you from (undeservedly) hating yourselves, but I'll love you anyway.
juliana - Feb 09, 2006 12:10:28 pm PST #8242 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Can't do anything to keep any of you from (undeservedly) hating yourselves, but I'll love you anyway.
Yup, this.
SuziQ - Feb 09, 2006 12:18:30 pm PST #8243 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Just a drive by to say lunch at Chez Panisse was a two hour culinary orgasmic affair.
Now I have to get 2 hours worth of work done in the next 15 minutes and then fly outta here for my iron thing. Oh boy.
Gudanov - Feb 09, 2006 12:20:14 pm PST #8244 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
8x-ma MG
Cass - Feb 09, 2006 12:29:10 pm PST #8245 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
When that happens, I try to remember HALT -- Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, adding in my personal favorites, Premenstrual (probably not your problem) and Migrainy.Let's see... No. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Tension or sinus likely, but yes. I'm not sure this is a happy-making checklist. Useful, but depressing today.
I need to run to the pharmacy and Trader Joe's. First I need to shower. Yep. Any minute now I am going to get motivated. Any minute...
lunch at Chez Panisse was a two hour culinary orgasmic affair.Nummy...
Aims - Feb 09, 2006 12:35:10 pm PST #8246 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
JZ, you darling girl.....insent.
DavidS - Feb 09, 2006 12:36:08 pm PST #8247 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Sometimes I look in the mirror and think "I hate myself", just like anybody else.
Anybody not me, I guess, since I never think that. I wonder where my overdeveloped ego came from? Pavlovian conditioning? Fluoride?
I need to give some credit to my best friend in high school, Alex. He developed an ethos (based on A Separate Peace and Cool Hand Luke) that bending to anybody's disapproval was the worst thing you could do. The worst betrayal of yourself. It was just drilled into me and it's been a really useful shield ever since.
And he backed that up in high school and in college by including everybody that came into our sphere. He found something cool in everybody. Not that he was a saint - he was very iconoclastic and stepped on toes a lot.
He wasn't tough though either. He was a swimmer with long blonde hair, and before he broke his nose and grew facial hair he looked very androgynous. But he'd purposefully push through the jarhead football players, inviting abuse (which he got). But if he met a football player that wasn't an asshole - that's all he cared about.
Anyway, I'm always boggled by the self-loathing. My immediate instinct is always "Fuck off!" instead of "I suck." Even when I do suck, I don't think that about myself.
Fuck off is your psyche's best friend.
Also, Teppy's hawttt. Her poor self image can fuck right off.
Sparky1 - Feb 09, 2006 12:37:55 pm PST #8248 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
MG, I'm glad you had a fabulous lunch! My mouth is watering in anticipation for the post when you actually tell us what you had.
As for the people who are self-hating today, I only have this to say: You're awesome, love ya, need ya, want the best for ya. If there's any way in which I can help all you have to do is ask, or, if you're feeling shy, just say, "I wish someone would..." and I'll do my best to be there.
Meanwhile, back on the interview front, after having lunch with the candidate, I want to keep this fellow that's here today. He not only blushes at the turn of a phrase, he's totally in love with his wife in that not-annoying way that let's you know he's a Good Guy.