Am I supposed to be changing my clothes a lot? Is that the helpful thing to do?

Anya ,'Storyteller'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Jessica - Dec 20, 2005 6:55:33 am PST #714 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Congrats, Nora!


Nora Deirdre - Dec 20, 2005 6:57:32 am PST #715 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Thank you! Also, Ginger and Deena rock mightily. But y'all already knew that, right? (Can't be said enough though)


§ ita § - Dec 20, 2005 6:58:15 am PST #716 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Congratulations, Nora!

I find blaming Nilly to work often -- and she's totally down with it.

I had that figured and one and a half-assed. I'll never get the math(s).

You're being over-Euclidean.

I think the word "radical" in "radical acceptance" scares me, but the principles themselves don't. They're hard, but I find I have the most problems when a) I feel I do have some control, and accepting will tke the edge of my ability to change reality, and b) it's actual physical pain, with no end date apparent.


Deena - Dec 20, 2005 6:58:29 am PST #717 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Wheeee! Go Nora! (and thank you, but you did all the hard work.)


Ginger - Dec 20, 2005 7:04:37 am PST #718 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Yay, an A!

(and what Deena said)


WindSparrow - Dec 20, 2005 7:06:51 am PST #719 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I don't feel I know Nilly well enough to blame her for stuff. I usually blame Harvey, but then he wants to make it up to me by snuggling and purring.


ChiKat - Dec 20, 2005 7:11:51 am PST #720 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Yay, Nora!!! You smart chick, you!

I cannot begin to tell you how slow it is in my office right now -- but I work at a university and classes are not in session.

It is INCREDIBLY slow here. I think I did about 2 hours worth of work yesterday. So far today, about 15 minutes.

I identify with the radical acceptance thing. I have never used it so concretely, but I definitey use the concepts. More of a, "Well, there's nothing I can do to change this, so I might as well ride the wave."


Fred Pete - Dec 20, 2005 7:13:01 am PST #721 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Congrats, Nora!


§ ita § - Dec 20, 2005 7:15:37 am PST #722 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I don't feel I know Nilly well enough to blame her for stuff

It may even have been her tagline. She's a kind soul. You should get to know her. Plus, bonus faulting.


WindSparrow - Dec 20, 2005 7:18:23 am PST #723 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'd love to get to know Nilly, we just never seem to post at the same time.

Remember what I said about Harvey purring and snuggling to make it up to me when I blame him for stuff? On cue, I tell you. Right this minute, purring up a storm on my lap.