Wesley: Perhaps the whole point of this experiment is hair. Gunn: I vote he's not in charge.

'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Volans - Jan 31, 2006 8:10:39 am PST #6958 of 10001
move out and draw fire

what did you do after you graduated college?

Got married (the DAY after graduation). Moved to the Bay Area. Tried to get a job during a bad recession. Moved north to Sacramento. FINALLY got a job...a job that has made every job since look wonderful.

Heh. Something Hec and Maidengurl might appreciate: The part of Athens I live in is Papagos. Which I believe is the name of the park where the A's play in spring training. Karma, I tell you.

And I need to ask for some unspecified life~ma, having to do with careers and places and moving and such.


ChiKat - Jan 31, 2006 8:14:06 am PST #6959 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Go, Nicole!! So proud of you.

{{sj}}

Bad = Killer Cramps from Hell
Good = Leaving early today to get a massage!

Boo for the bad. And, I totally sympathize. I'm got some serious cramps happening along with nausea. Yay! But, I don't get the nice massage.

After college, I moved home (Memphis) and worked for about 8 months before starting grad school. After grad school, I moved back to Memphis again and worked or a year before moving to Chicago. They were both good experiences for me. Grad school, on the other hand, I wish I had done differently. My advisor and I never really clicked (read: hated each other), and in a small program, that makes a huge difference. But I thought after the first year that I was stuck in the program until I finished. I wish I had just gone to another university.


Gudanov - Jan 31, 2006 8:15:32 am PST #6960 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

But you were in IT--admittedly I was in Canada, but I got the first job I applied for and they were desperate for more people.

I was stuck in San Antonio right after college for life-reasons. There isn't a big tech industry there and the IT jobs all had tons of applicants. I finally got a low paying job doing support, but only because choices one and two didn't work out. I got a rejection letter before I was hired.


DCJensen - Jan 31, 2006 8:18:02 am PST #6961 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

It's sixteen years later, and I'm still doing what I was going to do until I got on my feet and started doing what I wanted to do.

Oops.


DCJensen - Jan 31, 2006 8:21:39 am PST #6962 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

Oops, I forgot. Right after college, I also drove out to LA, and bummed around taking temp jobs and volunteering for AFI movie projects as a PA.

Moved back when the funds ran out.


SuziQ - Jan 31, 2006 8:26:26 am PST #6963 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Maidengurl might appreciate:

Yes, indeedy. And I will be there in JUST OVER A MONTH.

Ahem, sorry. I can't answer the college question, cause I'm still in school, and working full time, and parenting...I'm so not a good example.


§ ita § - Jan 31, 2006 8:27:55 am PST #6964 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I took my last exam, delayed working a week because of a sprained thumb, and dived right into the workplace in the same city in which I'd gone to school. I don't regret it at all.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2006 8:31:03 am PST #6965 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

MG, you're an awesome and incredible example.


Gudanov - Jan 31, 2006 8:31:21 am PST #6966 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

My first job was nice in that I could pay the bills and eat while searching for a better job.


Calli - Jan 31, 2006 8:32:24 am PST #6967 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I wish I could have done something before diving right into the job market. But I graduated deep in debt, and for quite a while there it only got deeper. At 38 I'm still not quite finished digging my way out.