Faith: A kid. Angel's got a kid. Wesley: Connor. Faith: A teenage kid born last year. Wesley: I told you, he grew up in a hell dimension. Faith: Right. And what, Cordelia spent her last summer as… Wesley: A divine being. Faith: Uh-huh. Can I just ask--What the hell are you people doing?

'Why We Fight'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DCJensen - Jan 31, 2006 8:18:02 am PST #6961 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

It's sixteen years later, and I'm still doing what I was going to do until I got on my feet and started doing what I wanted to do.

Oops.


DCJensen - Jan 31, 2006 8:21:39 am PST #6962 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

Oops, I forgot. Right after college, I also drove out to LA, and bummed around taking temp jobs and volunteering for AFI movie projects as a PA.

Moved back when the funds ran out.


SuziQ - Jan 31, 2006 8:26:26 am PST #6963 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Maidengurl might appreciate:

Yes, indeedy. And I will be there in JUST OVER A MONTH.

Ahem, sorry. I can't answer the college question, cause I'm still in school, and working full time, and parenting...I'm so not a good example.


§ ita § - Jan 31, 2006 8:27:55 am PST #6964 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I took my last exam, delayed working a week because of a sprained thumb, and dived right into the workplace in the same city in which I'd gone to school. I don't regret it at all.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2006 8:31:03 am PST #6965 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

MG, you're an awesome and incredible example.


Gudanov - Jan 31, 2006 8:31:21 am PST #6966 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

My first job was nice in that I could pay the bills and eat while searching for a better job.


Calli - Jan 31, 2006 8:32:24 am PST #6967 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I wish I could have done something before diving right into the job market. But I graduated deep in debt, and for quite a while there it only got deeper. At 38 I'm still not quite finished digging my way out.


Sophia Brooks - Jan 31, 2006 8:32:32 am PST #6968 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I, too, wish I had gone out and done things! That is when you have freedom.

I stayed local and worked at a grocery store while looking for a job. Through a friend I got an office job a a local theatre, where I worked for a craxy person and learned a lot.

3 year later I got fired, quit theatre, had a nervous breakdown and moved in with my mom, and I haven't been the same since (although I am quite happy now).

Anyway, I would suggest NOT getting too bogged down by having a job/place to live. This is the time to travel, and to sleep on the floor of various friends houses and to generally not be safe. As an older person, I am much more set in my ways and unwilling to take risks, so I would say-- take risks now

This of course, is just my experience, so YBMV.


brenda m - Jan 31, 2006 8:33:45 am PST #6969 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Skimming the thread very quickly, after my last post, made me think that a bunch of y'all graduated into the dominatrix job market.

Quite a number of us seem to have graduated into the stripper job market, so you're not that far off.


Ginger - Jan 31, 2006 8:35:59 am PST #6970 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I was a newspaper intern the summer after my junior year and freelanced for the paper through my senior year. I graduated on a Wednesday and started work full-time at the paper the following Monday. The idea of bumming around Europe sounds wonderful, and definitely something to do when you're young, but I had no money and living at home was not an option. I've still been blessed with pretty much being able to write and design for a living for all these years.