I guess if it is a new thing - it is not surpriseing he didn't handle it well. I'm thinking if it waws me, it might not be a no, but it would be a slooow waay dooown sign for me. He doesn't know you , he doesn't know what is important to you- but unless the situation with the other one was much more serious than I suspect it was, he might get a chance.

So, I just saw whole bunches of bayarea buffistas with lots of wine and cheese. conclusion: We need to do more eastbay stuff.

Congrats on the dateage, Beej. I don't envy the situation you're in. Honesty and candor are of prime importance to me in a relationship and it sounds like they matter to you, too. I hope it all works out to your satisfaction.

We need to do more eastbay stuff.

WOoHoO!

Goodness knows, I've hedged more than one bet in my life, so I'm not really angry per se. It's just not acceptable to me.

Understandable, both the bet hedging and the non-acceptance. I've had a number of friends who thought nothing of having two or three beaux to their string at the same time. I just know it's something I can't do and don't appreciate having done to me.

I've had a number of friends who thought nothing of having two or three beaux to their string at the same time. I just know it's something I can't do and don't appreciate having done to me.

I've known people like that. It's like they need to have a pitcher warming up in the bullpen just in case they need to pull their current pitcher from the game.

Which makes sense, except for the whole part of how dating is not baseball.

What does one wear to a 70's roller skating party?

It's like they need to have a pitcher warming up in the bullpen just in case they need to pull their current pitcher from the game.

That, I don't mind. If the first pitcher really blows it, you pull him and move on with the next one. You just don't go back to that first pitcher.

No, the one's I could never understand were the ones that juggled 2 or 3 people at the same time. I tried it once and it was just so screwed up I never did it again. I was always afeared of what happened to Beej happening to me, only with me in the role of the fella. It was just too stressful and I decided I wasn't the type to juggle. One at a time is enough.

What does one wear to a 70's roller skating party?

I'm thinking knee socks, satin shorts, and a T-shirt with an iron-on decal. Oh! And feather earrings and blue eye shadow.

I've possibly seen Boogie Nights too many times.

What does one wear to a 70's roller skating party?

Halter tops and hot pants. Bell-bottoms and peasant blouses. A little tie-dye, maybe.

I think I'm getting this for Joe. [link]

And - a big ole afro wig.

hmm.....hot pants. Let me rephrase - what does one a size 16 wear to a 70's roller skating party? I was thinking faded jeans rolled up, cable knit knee socks and a decal t-shirt.