Gud, what Hec and everyone said. You've worked hard to make this marraige work, and if that's not sucessful, that doesn't speak at all to your worth as a person, or a father. You and your wife made and are raising two AMAZING kids and there's nothing that can take away from that, them being in the world, and your love for them, and their love for you. If the marriage can't work out, it's better to recognize that and move on to the next stage before anger and bitterness begin to creep in... I don't know if this is at all comforting but I am thinking of all 4 of you and hoping that you move to the other side of this anguish in the best way possible.
I don't give half a hump if you're innocent or not. So where does that put you?
Book ,'Objects In Space'
Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nora Deirdre - Jan 14, 2006 7:36:32 am PST #4489 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
sj - Jan 14, 2006 7:47:35 am PST #4490 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
What everyone else said, {{{Gud}}}.
Nora Deirdre - Jan 14, 2006 7:54:47 am PST #4491 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
I am doing a playlist on iTunes called SHOVE IT! filled with angry cathartic songs I can play after a shitty day at work. It's fun! Any suggestions?
erikaj - Jan 14, 2006 7:57:04 am PST #4492 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!
You've tried really hard, Gud. I've been impressed.ETA: "She Works Hard For The Money" "Take this Job and Shove It." "It's Five O' Clock Somewhere."
Daisy Jane - Jan 14, 2006 8:02:52 am PST #4493 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
I am doing a playlist on iTunes called SHOVE IT! filled with angry cathartic songs I can play after a shitty day at work. It's fun! Any suggestions?
L7-Shove? Shit list? I Don't Like You- The Muffs?
tommyrot - Jan 14, 2006 8:05:16 am PST #4494 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
"Youth Against Facism" by Sonic Youth. Although is is more of a political angry cathartic song... and in the same vein, "Mosh" by Eminem.
Jars - Jan 14, 2006 8:09:56 am PST #4495 of 10001
"Song 2" by Blur is always pretty cathartic. And "You're Never Gonna Get Ahead by Giving Head to the Man" is a fun 'I Hate Work' kind of song.
brenda m - Jan 14, 2006 8:30:44 am PST #4496 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
The Headstones, "Fuck You," is one of my go-tos.
Jessica - Jan 14, 2006 8:31:38 am PST #4497 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
"Damn It Feels Good To Be a Gangster" - especially good for work b/c of the Office Space connection.
brenda m - Jan 14, 2006 8:34:19 am PST #4498 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Johnny Cash's Sixteen Tons.