Thanks, Cass. I think we'll be pretty much in agreement over everything; we just can't handle all the paperwork ourselves.
ETA: Well, not everything, but enough. I will be taking the major financial hit in this, but then again I'm the one that left.
Lorne: Snakes? Uh-huh. And they came out of your what? Okay. Okay, well, did they get up there themselves or is this part of a, you know, a thing? No, I'm not judging...Do we fight snakes? Angel: Only if they're giant. Or demons. Or giant demons. Are they giant demon snakes? Lorne: Well, unless this guy's 30 feet tall, I'm thinking they're of the garden variety.
'Lineage'
Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Pix - Jan 13, 2006 12:56:26 pm PST #4434 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.
Cass - Jan 13, 2006 12:56:54 pm PST #4435 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Yes, she did.It's a start? Okay, not a nice one, but a start...
Aims - Jan 13, 2006 12:57:33 pm PST #4436 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Now the original mean poster has come back and made a lame-ass apology.
Daisy Jane - Jan 13, 2006 12:57:52 pm PST #4437 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Pretty much what Cass said, but even with lawyers, I've not seen it cost that much. In the thousands, maybe, but tens of thousands, uhm, no.
Laura - Jan 13, 2006 12:58:14 pm PST #4438 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.
Someone please tell me that I can find a way to afford this: [link]
I did the DIY method. It wasn't quick. I wasn't willing to spend money for lawyers. I wrote up everything the way I thought made sense, sent it to him, etc. As Cass said, the more you can do yourself the better.
Cass - Jan 13, 2006 1:00:22 pm PST #4439 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
I think we'll be pretty much in agreement over everything; we just can't handle all the paperwork ourselves.No, you really can't. Mine was far less complicated and there was just no way.
If you are not fighting things, the mediation costs won't be scary high. And you want the divorce, so you pay and move on. It's cheaper, by far, than lawyers or making a mistake on your own.
Pix - Jan 13, 2006 1:01:51 pm PST #4440 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.
Thanks. I contacted a local mediator who also has practiced in CT. We'll see where that leads.
Aims - Jan 13, 2006 1:04:05 pm PST #4441 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
t still doing the angry bitch dance
Cass - Jan 13, 2006 1:07:00 pm PST #4442 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
but even with lawyers, I've not seen it cost that much.
My aunt does mediation and family law. The bills can be outrageous. People would rather give the money to an attorney than work something out with their ex-spouse. It gets really ugly and can last trhough years of court battles and billings. Lawyers bill hourly and $250 is actually a low rate. You can get to $10K in 40 hours that way.
I hope the mediator you contacted can help you, K.
SuziQ - Jan 13, 2006 1:08:00 pm PST #4443 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Picturing said dance in the outfit Aimee linked yesterday.