I'm sorry, dad. You know I would never have tried to save River's life if I had known there was a dinner party at risk.

Simon ,'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Dec 16, 2005 3:14:04 pm PST #335 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It's a week for the blood test for the colon cancer but it's apparently very accurate at least. I think we'll know basics before then from the bone scans and MRIs and the myriad of other tests. Maybe not where the cancer came from, but at least where it is and if there are treatment options. Just ... frustrating.

I really don't feel like being social tonight but the lure of a fireplace is winning me over. And that I can show up there in yoga pants. It's the Casual Friday of friendships.


JZ - Dec 16, 2005 3:20:18 pm PST #336 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

(((Cass)))

(((Cass's grandma)))

I really don't feel like being social tonight but the lure of a fireplace is winning me over. And that I can show up there in yoga pants. It's the Casual Friday of friendships.

Fireplace, yoga pants, Casual Friday: all of that sounds comforting and nourishing and very much of the good. Infinitely more so than staying home not-googling.


brenda m - Dec 16, 2005 3:21:38 pm PST #337 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Did you see my fireplace picture earlier? Every time I look at it makes me want to curl up in a blanket with snow coming down. It's very soothing.

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Cass - Dec 16, 2005 3:25:37 pm PST #338 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I missed the picture. Where can I find it? Thanks! Wonderful picture! It made me more motivated even.

Fireplace, yoga pants, Casual Friday: all of that sounds comforting and nourishing and very much of the good. Infinitely more so than staying home not-googling.
You are totally right. I'm just feeling stuck at the moment. I've packed an overnight bag (I mentioned the Casual Friday-ishness of the friends?) and really just need to grab a shower, pick up some wine and salad and drive up there. The traffic settled down early so I should get moving on these things.


Jessica - Dec 16, 2005 3:32:45 pm PST #339 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

My caramelized onion relish is processing away nicely (except that a tripled recipe somehow only filled *5* jars, which means I have to make more tomorrow), and I am now contemplating dinner.

I have every kind of takeout in the world here. Why can't I make up my mind? It's probably down to either Indian or Thai.


brenda m - Dec 16, 2005 3:35:09 pm PST #340 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That's from Thanksgiving this year. There's a cute picture of me in that set. I'm a little sausagey in that sweater, but it was cold. But otherwise I like it, which I almost never do, so I'ma post that one too:

My sister, friend Tim, and me in the corner:

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Cass - Dec 16, 2005 3:53:41 pm PST #341 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Is it just that picture or do you and your sister look awfully alike, brenda? It's a great picture!

I have every kind of takeout in the world here. Why can't I make up my mind? It's probably down to either Indian or Thai.
Mmmm, takeout...


Jessica - Dec 16, 2005 3:55:42 pm PST #342 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I went with Indian. Mostly because I can order it online, and I'm lazy like that.


Cass - Dec 16, 2005 4:02:35 pm PST #343 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I prefer ordering almost everything online. Fewer talking with teh people moments.

Which segueways quite imperfectly to my leaving now to go and see people.


brenda m - Dec 16, 2005 4:02:39 pm PST #344 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yeah, there's a certain resemblance, to say the least. At a wedding a few weeks ago, someone came up to her and wanted to know why she changed her dress. (i.e., thinking it was one person, two outfits.) Thanks!