I also had delicious oatmeal! With raisins and cranberries!
Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Why are you taking the bra off, Raq? I'd think that's the kicker.
the tacky v. hot bra questions, like so many things, depends on the context. Is the person doing it specifically to titllate? If yes, then, probably tacky. Is the person doing it because her bra is poking at her and she's watching TV and doesn't want to get up and the only other person there is her SO? Then I'd say just an everyday clothing removal, like taking off socks.
Is the person doing it specifically to titllate? If yes, then, probably tacky
Why does this make it probably tacky?
I think it depends on what music is playing.
To me, it's tacky because...it's not hot?
I'm with tommyrot. A 70s soundtrack, or a powerballad, would probably crank up the tackometer.
Although, that said, there are some people for whom I can't imagine this action to be NOT hot, regardless of context. I mean, Eliza Dushku removing her bra...I don't know how that could be a bad thing ever.
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Nope.
Well, it wouldn't be hot to me, but that's a Kinsey thing. But if a guy is just chilling with a girl he likes, and it's late and she casually (but knowing what she's doing) shrugs out of her bra, I can see where it'd say "She's relaxed!" and "Boobies ahoy!" which can combine for hotness.
If she's doing it as part of a strip tease, could also be hot.
I can't think of a way to take my bra off underneath my shirt and make it sexy (too little room to maneuver = elbows in awkward places), but then, I'm not a stripper. With practice, it could probably be hot.
I do that ALL THE TIME, as am a bra-hater, but need to wear one for work. I can do it in seconds flat and hav been known to do it while sitting in the dark at a movie theater with no one the wiser. It can be hot, if only because it's one less layer between the fellow and the breasts and, in my experience, fellows find that a v. good thing.