Ah fuck.
Grandma is in the hospital in Fallbrook. She went in early yesterday (5) To early to call you and Dad spaced on it. We had a busy day. We thought it was her hip but an MRI proved other wise. It's her pelvis. She is having a bone scan today at noon. Give us a call.
I don't know anything else. I called her cell but had to leave a message. Heading to shower, get the nice repair man parked behind me to move and then heading up there likely.
Fuckity.
She needs the other hip replaced really soon too but this sounds like something different. And not good.
Fuckity.
From the previous thread:
sj, you've gotten great advice...from everyone but your therapist. Can I come thwap him?
Yes, please. Normally he is good, but he is dropping the ball on this one issue. I am not doing this for attention. Really, I'm not. If I could avoid this awful panicky feeling, I would.
This is for you,sj.
Thank's beth. You made me cry and restored some of my faith in humanity.
{{{Cass and Cass's grandmother}}} Much health~ma headed her way.
Oh dear. Lots of ~ma to you and G'ma, cass. {{{cass & GM}}} Call me if there's something I can do.
{{sj}}
Aw, geez. MG, my heart is all twisty for you and CJ. And you, Cass, and your grandmother. And you, sj, and the battle to get stuff done and finish the paper and cope with the evil job. Too much crappitude all around, dammit!
::shakes helpless fist at the universe::
{{Cass}} All the healing ~ma I can muster headed your grandmother's way.
She needs the other hip replaced really soon too but this sounds like something different. And not good.
In silver lining news, looks like her other (non-replaced) hip is okay.
There appears to be a tumor on her pelvis though. I know nothing more than that. Talked to my stepmom for a while and we might know more later tonight.
Grandma is knocked out on morphine right now so I am going up there tomorrow.
She is demanding to be home for Christmas and the doctor said that if she was still there, she could be released for a few hours that day. The hell? If she's still there in two weeks???
I am thinking I ought not google until I have something more definitive to google. That way lies madness and the rending of garments.
Thank you for all of the thoughts, prayers and ~ma. I am a firm believer in them.
Many thoughts, prayers and ~ma, Cass. How scary. I hope you find out more information soon.
I took a nice, long nap this afternoon and am feeling more human. I have made dinner, but Emily isn't home yet, so I just smell the goodness. If she doesn't get home soon, I'm gonna eat without her.
I am thinking I ought not google until I have something more definitive to google. That way lies madness and the rending of garments.
Don't Google! You don't have enough info yet for that. Thoughts are prayers are with you and grandma.
Recovery-ma for your grandma, Cass. Hip replacement is scary stuff.
{{{MG}}} The Mommy business is HARD. And the pay sucks.
Aimee, my thoughts are with your friend. I know how heart-breaking that can be.
