You got fired, and you still hang around here like a big loser. Why can't he?

Cordelia ,'Chosen'


Natter 41: Why Do I Click on ita's Links?!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Vortex - Jan 10, 2006 8:09:12 am PST #8972 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Am I supposed to bring anything? I know a bottle of wine or something similar is what you usually bring to a dinner party, but I don't know if the rules are the same for a date.

wine? condoms?


flea - Jan 10, 2006 8:09:20 am PST #8973 of 10002
information libertarian

IMO, bringing wine gives a message of "I'm nice!" with subtle overtones of "Let's get schnookered and make out!"

ita, you could wear the jacket with a slim dress, or hollywood-waisted pants or a skirt and a slim-fitting blouse, maybe?

Oh, and thanks, everyone. I am tired and worried about the whole thing right now (i.e. our finances) so the excitement is helping perk me up.


§ ita § - Jan 10, 2006 8:10:58 am PST #8974 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

What's a Hollywood waist?


Kate P. - Jan 10, 2006 8:11:45 am PST #8975 of 10002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

IMO, bringing wine gives a message of "I'm nice!" with subtle overtones of "Let's get schnookered and make out!"

Perfect! Exactly what I'm going for. Now I just have to figure out what to wear...


shrift - Jan 10, 2006 8:11:45 am PST #8976 of 10002
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Raise! This means I don't have to consider the job that would pay more but would involve 55-hour weeks plus two hours of commuting!

YAY. I've finally stopped working crazy amounts of overtime, and if you started, I probably would cry. YAY.


Frankenbuddha - Jan 10, 2006 8:13:33 am PST #8977 of 10002
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Now I just have to figure out what to wear...

Maybe this is the question that "handcuffs" is the answer to...

Congrats to both the fleas and dana. Good to have some good news.


Vortex - Jan 10, 2006 8:13:37 am PST #8978 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Perfect! Exactly what I'm going for. Now I just have to figure out what to wear...

well, that depends on where you want the evening to end -- at the door or in his bed?

at the door -- pants in bed -- skirt, no pantyhose. or stockings with garters.


Calli - Jan 10, 2006 8:14:23 am PST #8979 of 10002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congratulations, Flea!


§ ita § - Jan 10, 2006 8:14:37 am PST #8980 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I have to say I love you guys right now. You make me want to go on a date, but also relieved that it's not in the cards. All these rules and signals!


flea - Jan 10, 2006 8:17:33 am PST #8981 of 10002
information libertarian

Hollywood waist: high, often above the natural waistline, no waistband or belt loops or anything, usually a little shaped with darts.

A lot of the google/google image hits aren't really Hollywood waists - it should be fairly high, which might make it hard to find in this low-rider era.