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Natter 40: The Nice One  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Scrappy - Nov 10, 2005 9:10:53 am PST #2815 of 10006
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

It can be bad, Allyson. More if a person is in an enclosed space and smokes, as my parents used to do all Winter. They ALWAYS smelled like stale smoke and it was not a pleasing scent. If you smoke outside, it shouldn't be that noticable.


Jesse - Nov 10, 2005 9:11:56 am PST #2816 of 10006
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Every so often, like on the train, I notice myself smelling smokey, but I firmly believe it varies by what I'm wearing and the weather, since I usually smoke outside.


erikaj - Nov 10, 2005 9:14:17 am PST #2817 of 10006
Always Anti-fascist!

What Nutty said about it clinging to your effects. But it stinks way less than say, bodily functions, which we all have.


flea - Nov 10, 2005 9:23:27 am PST #2818 of 10006
information libertarian

I had a colleague in graduate school who was a very heavy smoker, had standards of oral hygiene that I can only hope were not normal for her home country in Eastern Europe, and who wore very strong rose-scented essential oil. When I had to sit next to her in class it was really torture. She sort of smelled like a charnel house. It didn't help that I hated her for reasons completely independent of her smell.

When I go out to a bar or a smoky party (which is never, anymore) I always come home and strip completely naked before falling into bed. Usually I'm too tired/drunk to wash my hair, but I would if I could, because if I don't I have to wash the sheets the next day because of the stale smoke smell.


Fred Pete - Nov 10, 2005 9:24:51 am PST #2819 of 10006
Ann, that's a ferret.

Our timekeeper sends us a reminder about our time sheets every pay period. Which really comes in handy since we switched from a paper-based system (where getting the physical timesheet was a good reminder) to an electronic system.

Which reminds me, my timesheet is due today.


Cass - Nov 10, 2005 9:26:37 am PST #2820 of 10006
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Stale smoke smells icky but I've known a lot of smokers and only one smelled obnoxious. Nothing that opening a window, stepping outside, washing her hands or any of a zillion other things wouldn't have fixed.

It wasn't the smoke, per se. It was the smoker.

In the same way I don't think cats smell but lock 'em in a closed house without changing the litter box and there is stank.


Katie M - Nov 10, 2005 9:29:42 am PST #2821 of 10006
I was charmed (albeit somewhat perplexed) by the fannish sensibility of many of the music choices -- it's like the director was trying to vid Canada. --loligo on the Olympic Opening Ceremonies

I don't actually mind the smell, as such; I just can't cope with being around cigarette smoke for more than an hour or so, because I end up with nasty upper respiratory systems and feel lousy.


askye - Nov 10, 2005 9:32:30 am PST #2822 of 10006
Thrive to spite them

I'm responsible for payroll, which means I make sure that all the timesheets get turned in. Regular employees get paid their 40 automatically, so sometimes a guy just forgets that he needs to have it turned in.

However, I call and remind them if I don't see it. For any Monday holidays (we have to run payroll by 5 pm Monday)I email the supervisors, call the supervisors, and remind the supervisors when I see them. It's slightly overkill but then I don't have to wait until the last minute.


Dana - Nov 10, 2005 9:41:34 am PST #2823 of 10006
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

msbelle really might be the nicest.


Burrell - Nov 10, 2005 9:41:43 am PST #2824 of 10006
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I have found the smell of the smoker varied with, well, the smoker. As Robin said, heavy smokers who smoke in an enclosed space carry the smell with them all the time. But I don't necessarily notice the smell of smoke on someone who tends to smoke outside, except right after they have had a cigarette break.