Cordelia: You're him. You're Angel's son. Connor: It's not like I got to choose.

'Hell Bound'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Typo Boy - Dec 04, 2005 10:24:54 am PST #7780 of 10003
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Yeah. I'm working in my head on a post for my Mommyblog about just such a thing. Principles shouldn't be a luxury, damn it, but I can't afford to vote with my pocketbook these days.

You never could really. That is, depending on how well off you are you can choose to skip some products or vendors that are bad for the environment/society/humanity/etc. But the problems are structural. Just about everything is made in a harmful way one way or the other. The point is to do what you can to push for change, (obviously it will vary with available time, energy and money.)

But nobody can be perfectly pure. Even somebody who goes "back to the land" on a "self sufficient" homestead (which would be my personal version of hell - city boy thank you very much) can't pass the "what if everybody did it test". We are all part of a system; even if we choose to fight it, we can't escape being part of it; yes we have agency; we make our society; but we don't make it exactly as we please.


vw bug - Dec 04, 2005 10:25:53 am PST #7781 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Wheeee! Deena designed a lovely "book cover" for me! LOVE IT! [link]

Also, what was I thinking naming the community "shrinkingboobs"? New rule: no naming LiveJournal communities before coffee.


Eddie - Dec 04, 2005 10:39:25 am PST #7782 of 10003
Your tag here.

Wow, that cover is really well done; good job!


Laura - Dec 04, 2005 11:01:22 am PST #7783 of 10003
Our wings are not tired.

Very nice cover Deena!

I've only met one person with my birthday, same year too. I loved him muchly and wouldn't have minded sharing my day with him. As a general rule though I think it stinks. A person really should get one day for themselves.

Random kid moments today. DH decided he wanted to go to see Harry Potter and he went to round up Bobby to go see it with him. Bobby was too busy playing army type games in the park to bother. He is such a social animal. Sitting in a theater just doesn't compare with playing with friends. Then Brendon (domestically way behind his little brother) asked me to teach him how to make a grilled cheese sandwich. Woo! He was a bit annoyed that I couldn't give him absolute time parameters, but he dealt with it. t /kids like carrots

Back to baking cookies...


erikaj - Dec 04, 2005 11:14:15 am PST #7784 of 10003
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah, it's nothing but a small bit of choice, but those can be important in their way. Nine was...a little hard for me. I think that's when I first started to get that I wasn't gonna grow past the wheelchair thing, but at the same time I don't doubt that part of me thought I could be "legendary" too. After all, grown people were waiting for me to answer THEIR questions; I must be a genius. I wanted to be a telethon star, man. Mom said "No." then she said "Hell no." then she said "over my dead body." After that, I got the message. Now, I'm glad. A true subversive shouldn't be remembered for singing "Tomorrow" in her Sunday-go-to-meeting. Actually, though she was probably afraid I'd try to do stand-up...prove you didn't have to be in double digits to have a tight five...also, Mom would take ten years off her life to not bring attention on herself. In many ways, she doesn't understand me at all.


-t - Dec 04, 2005 11:17:17 am PST #7785 of 10003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm with Brendon on wanting time parameters. I once had exact time and temperature settings figured out for a perfect grilled cheese, but I moved away from that stove, of course, and have never achieved such reproducible perfection since. Alas.

I picked my French Toast recipe based on teh fact that it says "3 minutes on a side or until golden brown" rather than just "until golden brown". Even if it's wrong, at least it's something to aim for.

I think it's time for cross-stitch.


DCJensen - Dec 04, 2005 11:36:17 am PST #7786 of 10003
All is well that ends in pizza.

Click here [link] for some science teaching filk...

for instance:

Glucose -- ah, sugar sugar --
You are my favorite fuel
From the blood-borne substrate pool.
Glucose -- monosaccharide sugar --
You're sweeter than a woman's kiss
'Cause I need you for glycolysis.


§ ita § - Dec 04, 2005 11:40:44 am PST #7787 of 10003
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Calculus learning aid.


vw bug - Dec 04, 2005 11:46:56 am PST #7788 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Hec, insent to profile addy.


vw bug - Dec 04, 2005 11:50:25 am PST #7789 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Actually, Hec, it bounced back, so insent to gmail addy.