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Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Nov 18, 2005 8:26:49 am PST #5557 of 10003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

It sounds lovely, Gud.


juliana - Nov 18, 2005 8:27:50 am PST #5558 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Gud, you are a truly wonderful man. Don't you forget it.


Gudanov - Nov 18, 2005 8:30:24 am PST #5559 of 10003
Coding and Sleeping

Thanks all. I think the card will go over well, but I also think my wife will still think I'm a jerk overall. No end in sight for the troubles for the time being.


WindSparrow - Nov 18, 2005 8:36:38 am PST #5560 of 10003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Go, CaBil!

Also, hoping Jilli is as pain-free as possible.

Robin, that's a very good suggestion, about the storage bins. Daniel has made similar suggestions in the past. Dunno why I haven't tried that.


Volans - Nov 18, 2005 8:47:34 am PST #5561 of 10003
move out and draw fire

Raq, does you experience include other rich countries, or only nations that were a lot poorer than the U.S./French/UK/W. European standard. Cause I admit you have a lot more personal experience than I do.

Nope, just poorer countries. My British friends are very well educated, and come from both types of schools, but I have no direct experience of the British schools, other than a bit at the university level. My German and Turkish friends are also well educated, but I don't know where they attended school.

My experience with state-funded (vice private) schools in the other countries has been that state agendas are frequently promulgated under the guise of education. You would not believe the kinds of things included in Romanian textbooks from the Ceaucescu period.

In Malaysia, one of the problems that we encountered over and over, and had many teacher meetings on, was how to handle students coming into the International (private) school from a state-run (Koranic) school at the high school level. They were very far behind the other students in terms of ability to think. They were great at rote memorization.

OTOH, I had several Chinese-Malay friends who were extremely well educated, but they'd attended private schools in Malaysia, Korea, and England.

I don't have enough experience with Greek schools to speak, but this is the richest country I've lived in (US excluded).


Volans - Nov 18, 2005 8:48:57 am PST #5562 of 10003
move out and draw fire

And, on a different topic, this is done to be funny, but is actually a really good analysis of what happiness is, and how to maximize it: [link]

(From a hardcore economic journal)


Kat - Nov 18, 2005 8:50:12 am PST #5563 of 10003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Raq, random question I could google but am google broken. What was Ceaucescu's first name?


beth b - Nov 18, 2005 8:51:17 am PST #5564 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

wheee! yay for CaBil !


§ ita § - Nov 18, 2005 8:55:25 am PST #5565 of 10003
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My experience with foreign schools probably has more detail than my experience with American schools. Not having been to one here. But from helping kids with homework, etc, accounting for time slippage, the average expected level of kid education seemed higher both in the UK (richer, natch) and in Jamaica (third world, and why do people try to argue with me on that point?). I'm not pointing at the schools, so much, though. More that the attitude to education, the pervasive attitude, was different, and I don't know if the school structure, even before you get to quality, was cause or effect.

In Jamaica, school's important because it can get you from too poor to wear shoes every day to the floor of the UN, or professor.

Like it did with my parents. I don't know if the US recognises or encourages that sort of potential mobility.


Volans - Nov 18, 2005 8:55:46 am PST #5566 of 10003
move out and draw fire

Kat, Nicolae.