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[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Nov 16, 2005 12:34:36 pm PST #5139 of 10003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

For the record, I have been through somewhere between eight and ten thousand stock images of babies today, for obscure work purposes, and I can report that it is now scientifically established that the Buffista-sprog are way cuter and more interesting looking than any others.


P.M. Marc - Nov 16, 2005 12:35:37 pm PST #5140 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

-t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YAY, INTERNET ACCESS!

The only thing I can think any of my high school friends cheated at was bridge, but that wasn't for credit. I will own that in elementary school, cheating on busy work was epidemic, even in the gifted programs.

I don't know why I draw the line at college/university level work. Perhaps because, on the whole, we were assigned less busy work there, or perhaps because I have more friends teaching at that level who are constantly frustrated by the P word.

One of my RL best friends is due today. No sign of baby yet, poor girl.

She's quite sick of being pregnant.

I'm kind of glad I escaped that part.


-t - Nov 16, 2005 12:43:48 pm PST #5141 of 10003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Plei! Did I thank you for the beautiful pretties? I certainly should have, they bring me much joy.

As much as I was ideologically opposed to cheating of any kind in college, I was part of the rampant collaborative test taking in PE classes in high school. In part because we were never taught anything that was on the tests or had textbooks or anything.


DavidS - Nov 16, 2005 12:46:07 pm PST #5142 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I really like the culture of CalTech, UVA and Vanderbilt's honor systems. I prefer cultures/systems which encourage people to rise to high, positive expectations and reward that with trust.

I'd probably have a different attitude about this if I was in that kind of culture and it was widely respected. Then I would've more keenly felt that a fellow student's cheating was a betrayal of institutional trust.

My college didn't trust me that much, and earned that much loyalty in return, I suppose. We weren't heavily proctored or restricted, however. Just took our blue book exams in class by the clock with the teacher in the room. We didn't have to leave our backpacks at the door or take off our hats.

I think one thing shading the discussion is how you perceive who the cheaters are. If, in your mind, you're seeing privilege and entitlement behind the cheating then it looks shitty. The frat boys at my college with their big files of term papers, for instance. If you think of cheaters generally as people who have to finesse the system to survive or get by, then it looks very different. Somebody who cheats on welfare, for example, to keep their family afloat.


Jen - Nov 16, 2005 12:52:23 pm PST #5143 of 10003
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

In general, sure. I mean, on one hand there's Dennis Kozlowski and on the other there's Robin Hood.


-t - Nov 16, 2005 12:54:08 pm PST #5144 of 10003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It offends me that cheating occurs. It shouldn't. It should never be necessary, either. However, within a system that expects cheating or encourages it by witholding proper rewards from the deserving, I am unlikely to report anyone.

For what that's worth.


§ ita § - Nov 16, 2005 12:54:13 pm PST #5145 of 10003
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I don't think it's just who the cheaters are -- it's the relationship between them and who they're cheating.


P.M. Marc - Nov 16, 2005 12:56:06 pm PST #5146 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I am glad they bring you joy! It had been ages since I made anything.

Networking about contracting again. Much as I would prefer a permajob, contracting is more likely to happen. Hmm. Will cross the weird daycare slot bridge when I come to it, I guess.

Damn, this adulthood shit's complex.

-t, your PE classes had tests??

I got an academic exception for PE, so I guess our HS classes might have, and I just didn't know.


Burrell - Nov 16, 2005 1:02:22 pm PST #5147 of 10003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I have no idea how the cheating conversation started (yes, I skip, I do), but I have caught numerous cheaters--in my case, plagiarists. I have never really had a borderline case, really. And I've seen cases where the students involved lied again and again even when the instructors involved had proof positive. Like young Karl Roves in training.


Strega - Nov 16, 2005 1:07:36 pm PST #5148 of 10003

"It's the law!" by itself isn't a good reason to do something, any more than "There's no law against it!" is a good reason to do something.

When did you become this bunch of lawless anarchists?

For me, it was when I took a criminology class. Now there was a great teacher.

But if he'd failed that class, would that have ruined his chances of ever getting his PhD or being a chemist?
Yes. The bureaucracy of it isn't that interesting, but because of the way that school worked, he would not have been able to get his bachelor's in chemistry. Until the last-minute save, he was trying to figure out what he was going to change his major to.