They should film that story and show it every Christmas.

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - Nov 10, 2005 3:56:36 pm PST #4056 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Also, it sounds like a weird notion, but can you afford to get a hotel room for yourself one of these nights? One with room service and a bathtub, so you can just hole up and have some space that's just yours?


Susan W. - Nov 10, 2005 3:57:35 pm PST #4057 of 10003
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

t nods

Plei is wise.


libkitty - Nov 10, 2005 4:00:03 pm PST #4058 of 10003
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

My boss came in for a chat, hence the slow. Juliana, if you want someone to talk to, I would love to give you a call. I'm heading home now, and should get there in about 40 minutes. I'll leave my phone in my profile, or you can email me yours if you would like. Or, feel free to just ignore this if you would rather not talk.


juliana - Nov 10, 2005 4:00:29 pm PST #4059 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

can you afford to get a hotel room for yourself one of these nights?

No, but I do have an offer of a carriage house or a third floor bedroom and bathroom (in the house that owns the carriage house) if I need it. I may take her up on it - she's not very far away. Only problem is, no internet access if you're not wireless, and I kind of need Teh Internets right now. I still may take her up on it.


juliana - Nov 10, 2005 4:02:11 pm PST #4060 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

lib - thank you. I emailed you our.. his home phone. It's better reception. I can't guarantee I'll stay on for long, but I appreciate it.


Cass - Nov 10, 2005 4:02:18 pm PST #4061 of 10003
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Also, it sounds like a weird notion, but can you afford to get a hotel room for yourself one of these nights? One with room service and a bathtub, so you can just hole up and have some space that's just yours?
This massively saved me one night when I just couldn't deal with coming home to a husband who'd announced he was leaving. It really just saved me even if I couldn't really technically afford it.


DavidS - Nov 10, 2005 4:02:26 pm PST #4062 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

No, but I do have an offer of a carriage house or a third floor bedroom and bathroom (in the house that owns the carriage house) if I need it. I may take her up on it - she's not very far away. Only problem is, no internet access if you're not wireless, and I kind of need Teh Internets right now. I still may take her up on it.

Do whatever you can to break up the stuck-at-home-with-pain part of this. Go stay with friends. Get some exercise. Go see a movie. Go to a bar. Keep moving. A lot of what gets you through this part is what I call the Zombie Shuffle. You just keep moving forward any way that you can.


libkitty - Nov 10, 2005 4:04:08 pm PST #4063 of 10003
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

Got the number. I'm on my way home now, and will call as soon as I get there.


Cass - Nov 10, 2005 4:04:23 pm PST #4064 of 10003
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

No, but I do have an offer of a carriage house or a third floor bedroom and bathroom (in the house that owns the carriage house) if I need it. I may take her up on it - she's not very far away. Only problem is, no internet access if you're not wireless, and I kind of need Teh Internets right now. I still may take her up on it.
This, even without the Internets for maybe a night, is good. And it is just good to know you have a place to escape to, even if you don't use it.

My thoughts are so with you... This is hard.


juliana - Nov 10, 2005 4:40:13 pm PST #4065 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Thanks, sweetie. I've got a friend coming overr. I may force her to watch Angel. I'll check in later.