{{Gud}} Sorry you have to deal. I took over the bill-paying responsibilities since I decided to home and it can be overwhelming and stressful so I can totally see just saying, "I can't deal with this". As much as I hate stressing about money, though, the prefer knowing what's going on because that gives me some sense of control about the situation.
Teppy, I hate that it's SADS time again. I've been feeling it creep up on me and the craptacular weather we've been having ain't helping at all.