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Willow ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Betsy HP - Nov 09, 2005 4:44:53 pm PST #3892 of 10003
If I only had a brain...

David, it's just forgetting.

However, when Will is in a temper, he is impossible to deal with. He shuts down cold and glares and refuses to talk. I can easily imagine that's what he's been doing in band class after being teased. He's an immovable force, and I can certainly understand why a teacher would say "no more".


Laura - Nov 09, 2005 4:49:14 pm PST #3893 of 10003
Our wings are not tired.

I can certainly understand why a teacher would say "no more".

The teacher needs to work with you to find a way to make it work. I'm sorry that Will is having such a rough time. My heart breaks for him.


P.M. Marc - Nov 09, 2005 4:49:28 pm PST #3894 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

One of the reasons I went for this place is it has an infant room--a lot of the places we toured only take 1-year-olds and up.

What are their infant rates?


Betsy HP - Nov 09, 2005 4:53:29 pm PST #3895 of 10003
If I only had a brain...

My heart breaks for him.

Mine, too. He's trying hard to turn himself around, and I don't like the teacher telling him he can't.


DavidS - Nov 09, 2005 4:57:38 pm PST #3896 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

David, it's just forgetting.

I figured since you said he was enjoying the trumpet.

However, when Will is in a temper, he is impossible to deal with. He shuts down cold and glares and refuses to talk. I can easily imagine that's what he's been doing in band class after being teased. He's an immovable force, and I can certainly understand why a teacher would say "no more".

I'm just worried these issues would crop up again elsewhere in a different band or school. I know you've spent a lot of time and energy and counseling with Will on some of these issues already. It's encouraging that he's found friends and sympatico teachers at this school. I had similar difficulties in changing schools when I was about his age. Not so much the temper as being pegged an outsider and spending most of my middle school years in lonely nerd status. I was able to come out of it in high school.


DavidS - Nov 09, 2005 5:00:08 pm PST #3897 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

He's trying hard to turn himself around, and I don't like the teacher telling him he can't.

I hope the teacher can hear that.

I actually heard counseling on how to deal with that situation when I was in High School. It involved a bit of "Oh! Now I get it" performance on the student's part to get the teacher to reconsider his/her bias.

But it was reportedly an effective method for turning things around.


d - Nov 09, 2005 5:12:37 pm PST #3898 of 10003
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.

Betsy, that stinks. When I was growing up we had band at school and music lessons elsewhere. (We "got" to pick one instrument at the music studio, and a different instrument for school.) Our studio had private lessons, and part of that fee also went towards participation in various ensemble groups. Maybe there's an option like that for you? Even if you can sweet-talk the teacher into actually helping, an outside group might be useful.

I have to stop looking at that antique dress website because I want things and I can't afford them. Should I ever get married I so want this. I'm pretty sure it would even fit! There were flapper dresses too! (Although the one I would want is sold, alas.)

Hopefully all those facing life changes (divorce, job changes, daycare, etc) can get through them somewhat smoothly. {{}} to you all.


DCJensen - Nov 09, 2005 5:16:28 pm PST #3899 of 10003
All is well that ends in pizza.

{{{{{{{juliana}}}}}}}

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DCJensen - Nov 09, 2005 5:30:59 pm PST #3900 of 10003
All is well that ends in pizza.

Body seems little worse for wear one day after my tumble down the stairs. I have a few mild aches, and I'm tired, but nothing glaring.

Huh.

We'll see how long that lasts.


P.M. Marc - Nov 09, 2005 5:31:43 pm PST #3901 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

WOO!

Sweet potatoes appear to be a go. Cross all digits for the next few days that there are no unearthly ass reactions to said orange goodness.

We have found a food! I repeat, we have found a food!