'Potential'
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The YMCA I emailed last week called me! I called them this morning and they hadn't gone through the resumes yet, but she called while I was on my way home tonight! Whooo! I really really want this job. Maybe it'll turn into something I could do full time!
Gud. I have no words, love. Strength and patience to you.
Owen's eyes are exactly like Cash's.
I'm being an armchair psychiatrist here, Gud, but your wife sounds like she's severely depressed. Is she taking anything?
Yep, she's taking stuff (I know the stuff and the dosage, but I feel weird posting that).
Gud, I'm so sorry things are so rotten right now.
I apologize for my own whining -- bad timing on my part.
If people just stopped *needing* things from me, there'd be no problem
Ah, see, I'm my problem. I need too many things from me, and that sets off a chain reaction I can't quite control, and can't quite pull out of.
People stopping needing things from me would be nice, but it'd be stopgap, at best. I need to learn to take care of myself properly, or someone to step in and pick up the slack for just a little while. Uhuh, right.
Yikes, Gud. She stopped paying and didn't tell you? Can you talk to her spiritual guide at her church? I mean, this puts your kids at risk, which is really scary and does sound like depression.
Gud, I hate to pile any worse news on you, but I'd start looking for credit cards you don't know about. Seriously, I've seen someone lose his house, his car and have to take out massive loans because of the wife's spending habits. Loans he's still paying off, even though they're divorced. I hope you don't find any, but it's so easy to conceal that kind of thing.
{{{Gud}}} I hope you find some peace soon.
La Tep, no punctuation, but here's to a little equilibrium.
Are secret credit cards the sort of thing that Gud could find by getting a copy of his credit report?
Gud -- I'm sorry things have been this crappy. I hate being in that situation -- bills late etc. Of course, when I do it, it's all my own fault.
Gud, you probably should get credit reports on your and her SS#s. At least they will tell you if there's something else out there that she hasn't paid. (Free credit report site - [link]