If I'd liked beer more, I would have taken him up on it. I did drink now and again, though. I'm so glad Nick's sane and relatively normal.
edit to fix pronoun confusion.
Tara ,'Empty Places'
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If I'd liked beer more, I would have taken him up on it. I did drink now and again, though. I'm so glad Nick's sane and relatively normal.
edit to fix pronoun confusion.
I knew a guy with FAS once. For a person with FAS he was fairly functional but he had a lot of issues with women, ie. calling his birth mother "that drunk bitch who ruined my life" and he said he heard voices sometimes. He liked me though, once he knew he could say "motherfucker" unto infinity and I wouldn't scream or run away. I have that effect on guys.
There are often alcohol related flamewars on pregnancy boards between US women and UK/European women. The US women are usually whole-hog teetotaling "YOU ARE DAMAGING YOUR BABY!!!" types, with the UK/Euro more, "You're so fucking uptight. Check what OUR government suggests as a reasonable amount. PS, STFU."
I have no idea why I'm sharing this, except to share the flame pain.
"I like puppyfish stew! ...But it has to have real puppies in it." ~KaraI am hiding the puppycat from her. She's still young and might get confused. Also puppycat might think it's a spa day and not get out of the pot of warm water.
Jilli, best thoughts for you and Dread Beast.
Well, that probably says a lot about our(USA) attitudes about alcohol.
Dallas is sending love to the Beastie.
(and hiding from Kara)
Much love for Jilli's Beast. I miss my Beast. (How weird is that...we both have Beasts?)
Byron and Mia and I are all sending be-well vibes to Jilli and the Beastie.
I knew a FAS researcher when I was pregnant with my first. She could bend your ear, at length, about US women being scared out of their panties for no good reason. Women were calling her in hysterics saying (literally) I put Kahlua on my ice cream and I just found out I'm pregnant and should I abort OMG OMG.
When the real story, the true story, is that if you're a constant drinker, you can have a much healthier baby by reducing or elimiinating your drinking. Not "the damage is already done and you've fucked your kid's life" but "Stop drinking now, and the kid will be in better shape."
A drink of wine a week? Not even noticeable.
Oh, and also, my hair is bright red now.