Buffy: How bored were you last year? Giles: I watched 'Passions' with Spike. Let us never speak of it.

'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Volans - Nov 02, 2005 10:12:47 pm PST #2496 of 10003
move out and draw fire

We tried blueberries tonight.

Coincidentally, we had blueberries last night also. Mallory also learned something about the physical properties of levers, and what happens to mass on the end of a lever arm when that lever is rotated rapidly around its fulcrum.

Could we have started playing "Catapults & Battlements" with a spoonful of beef stew? No. It had to be blueberries.

At least we'd pulled the carpet up.

And another parenting story, along the lines of "Pat the Bunny": We were looking for gifts for Mallory, and I pointed out a game.

Me: "This will be good when he's older. It's called 'Feel and Find.'" DH: *snorts tea out his nose* "Um, yeah, I hope my son gets good at that."


WindSparrow - Nov 03, 2005 12:49:40 am PST #2497 of 10003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

My good thing? That summer of 2004 really was the last summer in Arizona, like I'd been saying to myself last year. I may be cold now, but I'm happy.

Moving is good.

Moving in with Daniel is very good.

P.S. Pondering babies with blueberries is also good ;-)


Stephanie - Nov 03, 2005 1:44:30 am PST #2498 of 10003
Trust my rage

Yep, definitely baby. (for a good thing)

Love the blueberry pictures - she looks cuter (if possible) when messy.

Just found out that the three kids of a friend i was going to see this weekend all have chicken pox. The oldest two had the vaccine. The youngest is 7 weeks old. Poor baby - I can't imagine what that would be like for him (and his mom. Three kids with chicken pox simultaneously!)


Cashmere - Nov 03, 2005 1:50:52 am PST #2499 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

Three kids with chicken pox simultaneously!

I think I'd need a straightjacket.

Lilybean has anime eyes!!! Plei, I'll be willing to be you get stopped all the time by strangers telling you what a gorgeous baby you have. I am amazed everytime I click on a new picture.

Moving in with Daniel is very good.

Morning schmooop.


Cashmere - Nov 03, 2005 1:56:43 am PST #2500 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

Also, I think it's cute that Plei gives Lily blueberries for the first time while she's dressed in a white onesie. That's brave.

edited

this is totally Paul!!!


Anne W. - Nov 03, 2005 2:08:17 am PST #2501 of 10003
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Gah. It just got pointed out to me that I never completed a craft project for an exchange I signed up for well over a year ago (maybe even two years ago). That's what I get for trying something too complicated, putting it aside, and managing to let myself forget about it. Nothing for it but to get it (or a reasonable equivalent) finished and sent out.

It's annoying because a) I feel guilty and angry at myself and b) this sort of procrastinate-procrastinate-forget behavior is something I've been working to correct for the past umpty-ump years.

Does anyone else have this kind of problem with follow-through? How do other people deal with making sure they follow through, and cleaning up the messes when they don't?

This is probably the thing about myself I dislike the most, and it has had a huge impact in many areas of my life. If I could have it surgically removed I would, but no, I'm just going to have to deal with the myriad issues that drive my chronic procrastination. I know what some of these issues are (perfectionism, fear of conflict, a tendency to take on more than I can do), but it seems like knowing them is less than half the battle.

On edit: I'm really desperate for some feedback on this, people. I'm not looking for reassurances that "yes, we still love you," or reminders that "yes, that is a problem." I want to know that other people struggle with this, and I want to know how other people deal with it.

(Now that I've whined, I'ma go look at the peektures of cute babies)


Stephanie - Nov 03, 2005 2:13:25 am PST #2502 of 10003
Trust my rage

Also, I think it's cute that Plei gives Lily blueberries for the first time while she's dressed in a white onesie. That's brave.

Cash's thoughts are my thoughts.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 03, 2005 2:39:00 am PST #2503 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

thanks for the good wishes! Sorry to be such a dork about it.

Betsy- glad partial victory was achieved, and want to hear about the dream job.

Maria, I bet you were psyched this morning to shower in a squeaky clean shower!

Deena, I hope today is better for you, and also I hope all the Bitches have a good day. Ginger, try not to kill anyone in DC, mmkay?

Edit: also OMG, Blue Lily! So cute.


Deena - Nov 03, 2005 3:28:11 am PST #2504 of 10003
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Anne, that's so tough to deal with. I make lists, I give myself permission to give/do something imperfect...and sometimes I end up apologizing a lot. I don't really have an answer, though, except maybe learning to say no more often. That often just sucks, though, and leaves me out of the fun stuff because the "real" stuff comes first.

Ginger, have fun storming the castleDC!

Betsy, yay for the dream job!

Today will be better. I don't have quite as much to do.

I take no offense at Betsy's truth.


billytea - Nov 03, 2005 3:28:50 am PST #2505 of 10003
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I just skipped more than 2000 messages. It was the only way.

Oh, Cass. You missed FAUNAPALOOZA!!

For me, it was seeing Billy Idol in concert, barely ten feet away.

An owl barked at me. That's my moment for the next little while, methinks. Wheee!

Hard to tell. She hated them less than bananas, but they're still Not Boobie.

Smear boobie with berry.

Um. That is, when you're feeding Lilybean, not just for the hell of it. It's a positive association thing.

For Lilybean, you understand. I have no idea if it'd be a positive association for you, and there are some things I'm more comfortable not knowing.

Adored Faunapalooza.

Hey, me too! Pint-sized echidna! And teeny penguins!