Atherton: Half the men in this room wish you were on their arm, tonight. Inara: Only half. I must be losing my indefinable allure.

'Shindig'


Natter 39 and Holding  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


msbelle - Sep 23, 2005 7:29:42 am PDT #289 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

oh, poor plei. you deserve bacon and eggs. maybe after pumping?


tommyrot - Sep 23, 2005 7:30:14 am PDT #290 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I'm totally crashing before lunch.

Can't hold altitude. She's breaking up! She's breaking up!


P.M. Marc - Sep 23, 2005 7:31:18 am PDT #291 of 10002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

So how does that work?

Either hippie woowoo or hormone stimulation. Take your pick.


§ ita § - Sep 23, 2005 7:31:24 am PDT #292 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

For the others, someone who is reflective would be like, "He hates me. What did I do wrong?" and would open the door to doubt.

Huh. I don't want to be led by either of your examples. I want to be led by "He hates me. I continuously examine my actions, their effects and their motivations. Does this add new data? Aha."

Sometimes people hate you for a reason, sometimes they don't. Sometimes they may even hate you for a good reason, but your course shouldn't be altered. Self-reflection shouldn't break that, or it's a piss poor kind of reflection.


P.M. Marc - Sep 23, 2005 7:32:10 am PDT #293 of 10002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

oh, poor plei. you deserve bacon and eggs. maybe after pumping?

I will have bacon and eggs tomorrow. That way, I don't have to be the one cooking them.


le nubian - Sep 23, 2005 7:34:32 am PDT #294 of 10002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

You know...is there something after clusterfuck? What other words are available?


Nutty - Sep 23, 2005 7:34:55 am PDT #295 of 10002
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."

I want to be led by "He hates me. I continuously examine my actions, their effects and their motivations. Does this add new data? Aha."

Pass the word: ita wants Sabermetricians to rule the world!

Huh. I don't want to be led by either of your examples.

Well, I was describing extremes on purpose. The "What did I do wrong?" kind of reflection is sort of what is called depressive rumination, where stewing on a mistake magnifies it to global "I suck" proportions. Whereas, "He hates me. Asshole." is the thought-process of a sociopath.


msbelle - Sep 23, 2005 7:35:54 am PDT #296 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

hippie woowoo might be the best phrase ever.


msbelle - Sep 23, 2005 7:38:02 am PDT #297 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

YAY sociopath Choose sociopath.


Cashmere - Sep 23, 2005 7:48:03 am PDT #298 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

The Nathan Fillion story has charmed the pants off of me. Damn, that guy's cute.

I just waited over an HOUR to get into my scheduled OB appointment (that's ONE HOUR AFTER I was supposed ot see him). I'm just glad I dragged DH to the office visit with me or I would have been really bored all alone. Doc gets a pass because he was delivering a baby.

Bacon and eggs sounds good. We may have that for dinner tonight.