Well, look who just popped open a fresh can of venom.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Natter .38 Special  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


billytea - Sep 01, 2005 5:01:52 pm PDT #3911 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

This is SUPER TRUE. Even if not losers, people not for you. I have a friend who always wants to have a big "where is this going" Talk at like three months, and I've always figured, when she finds the ONE GUY ON EARTH who isn't scared right off by that, he'll be the one for her.

Although I might not have an answer involving picket fences by then, I have been known not to be scared off by this after three dates, let alone months.

Ok, there's an interesting x-post.


§ ita § - Sep 01, 2005 5:02:50 pm PDT #3912 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

How far is the "where is this going?" talk from the "am I your girlfriend?" talk? What are the other talks? Do you just sneakily leave a toothbrush at his place? Use his? Have stank breath?

It's so complicated. My lack of understanding the protocol makes me very low maintenance. Sometimes unattractively so, I think.


sarameg - Sep 01, 2005 5:07:40 pm PDT #3913 of 10002

My mom's next door neighbor just had a little girl. Early, 33.5 weeks, and she's 4.2 lbs and doing quite well. Mom and dad have sort of been her support system since her husband is a security contractor on the road a lot (until now.) I'm quite happy for them. Finding good where I can.

This child was much hoped for and much thought unlikely.


erikaj - Sep 01, 2005 5:09:17 pm PDT #3914 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!

Tom, I'd like a guy to want to call me. Not that this is a come-on...


le nubian - Sep 01, 2005 5:10:22 pm PDT #3915 of 10002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

My Beau had a "we need to have an exclusive relationship" talk with me on our 2nd date. Granted, we met through the internet and talked on the phone for 6 weeks before we met in person, so maybe this is unusual.


§ ita § - Sep 01, 2005 5:12:23 pm PDT #3916 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Right! The "is there anyone else?" discussion, which isn't necessarily the "am I your girlfriend?" discussion, though they can be combined.


billytea - Sep 01, 2005 5:17:48 pm PDT #3917 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Right! The "is there anyone else?" discussion, which isn't necessarily the "am I your girlfriend?" discussion, though they can be combined.

Thank you! You'd think I'd grown an extra head, the way she reacted just because I handed out a formatted agenda.


erikaj - Sep 01, 2005 5:19:18 pm PDT #3918 of 10002
Always Anti-fascist!

Was it laminated? Because that would set off retentiveness concerns.


Maria - Sep 01, 2005 5:19:21 pm PDT #3919 of 10002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Tom, everyone else said it better than I ever could. You are eminently dateable, and she just passed up the best thing that could have happened to her.

{{{}}}


Jessica - Sep 01, 2005 5:19:54 pm PDT #3920 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Was it laminated? Because that would set off retentiveness concerns.

Also, it's frustrating not to be able to make notes.