A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 37: Oddly Enough, We've Had This Conversation Before.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Lee - Aug 02, 2005 6:17:12 pm PDT #5244 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I'm sitting out on my porch in my new adirondack chair, watching the sunset over the bay.

Life is not so bad.

^


Laura - Aug 02, 2005 6:22:37 pm PDT #5245 of 10002
Our wings are not tired.

Ah, that sounds lovely Perkins.

I just finished walking the dog and am now all sweaty. Yuck. If I had the energy I would take a quick swim before I went to bed, but too tired. Also, have to take DH to airport in less than 6 hours. To bed with me.....


Lee - Aug 02, 2005 6:24:34 pm PDT #5246 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Ah, that sounds lovely Perkins.

It really is. The sky is a really amazing color right now.

As an added bonus, I am driving the cats, who aren't allowed on the porch, bonkers.

Where is DH going, Laura?


sarameg - Aug 02, 2005 6:30:54 pm PDT #5247 of 10002

Perkins is TAUNTING.

I'm...answering maudlin email from officemate. You know what? A good friendship can sneak up on you. I'm usually more aware than that. In any case, we were lucky in that.


billytea - Aug 02, 2005 7:22:19 pm PDT #5248 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Same here. I totally thought billytea made it up.

t aghast Is this what you think of me? That I just go making stuff up? Please. Were I to do so, it'd be something much more interesting than this, and probably involving vultures.

Though Paul tells the older women to instruct the younger women -- does that count as "preaching/teaching"?

I'd say not in the context of 1 Timothy, which is a matter of church services. I'd want to check on the Greek terminology before commenting further, though.


brenda m - Aug 02, 2005 7:31:13 pm PDT #5249 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Perkins is TAUNTING.

Perkins is taunting Perkins, no less.


Susan W. - Aug 02, 2005 7:32:58 pm PDT #5250 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I've written a letter to the RWA board about the debacle Betsy described, but I haven't hit send yet. I'm writing from anger, and PMS-driven anger, at that. So, am I saying anything I'll come to regret here?

I was unable to attend the conference in Reno last week, but I have since read detailed descriptions of the RITA/GH awards ceremony. As a result, I am now glad that finances and the demands of mothering a toddler kept me home toiling away on my work-in-progress.

I won't detail all my objections to the content of the ceremony, since I know very well mine isn't the only message you're receiving on this topic. Suffice it to say that I consider playing "Don't Worry, Be Happy" over footage of Tiananmen Square to be in appallingly poor taste, showing a lack of respect for the courage and dignity of the protesters. Also, I understand that many laudatory images of Reagan and the Bushes were displayed, but that the only Clinton footage referenced the Lewinsky scandal. Since when is RWA an arm of the GOP? Where was the footage or Iran-Contra, Enron, and Halliburton? Did Karl Rove and Ken Starr join the Board while I wasn't looking?

I’m an unpublished writer in my second year of RWA membership. I joined, as I expect most people in my position do, in hopes of learning useful craft tips and industry know-how and developing contacts to help me get published and stay that way. What I didn’t sign up for was to see the cultural battles I’m all too familiar with from the 2000 and ‘04 elections re-enacted in miniature. So I’m thoroughly disgusted with the Graphical Standards issue, the survey in the July RWR that seemed designed to exclude gay and lesbian stories from the genre, and now this controversy. If it weren't for the wonderful support and advice I receive from the Beau Monde and Greater Seattle chapters, I would be revoking my membership now.

In the future, please use the awards ceremonies to celebrate romance and its authors, not to push a partisan political agenda.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 02, 2005 7:43:12 pm PDT #5251 of 10002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Susan, that sounds like a polite and reasonable response to objectionable behavior to me. I see nothing inflammatory, though of course the people responsible for the debacle will probably take any criticism personally.


bon bon - Aug 02, 2005 7:50:20 pm PDT #5252 of 10002
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

What is Stella and why are beloved SportsNight characters showing up on it?

Random sketch show on Comedy Central-- it was being promoted incessantly in June.


Susan W. - Aug 02, 2005 7:51:48 pm PDT #5253 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Thanks, Matt. I'll go ahead and send. The funny thing is that if the buzz I'm hearing is true, even the Board didn't know what the content of the ceremony would be beforehand, and that many of them are just as appalled as the rest of us. I'm sending it to the reps from my region (basically all the West except CA), with permission to forward to the whole Board. I don't know them or their views, though they both live in conservative cities (Colorado Springs and SLC).