Oh, yeah. There was this time I was pinned down by this guy that played left tackle for varsity... Well, at least he used to before he was a vampire... Anyway, he had this really, really thick neck, and all I had was a little, little Exact-O knife ... You're not loving this story.

Buffy ,'Beneath You'


Natter 37: Oddly Enough, We've Had This Conversation Before.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Anne W. - Jul 20, 2005 9:37:03 am PDT #1510 of 10002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Mostly I'm a little dejected about the state of my job hunt, and looking for things I can do above and beyond tossing cover letters and resumes into the ether. So I thought I'd look into whether getting an MLS would be a useful career move. And it's looking kinda positive, so apparently I'm not totally dead-ended at 37. Which is reassuring.

Calli, except for the MLS thing, I'm right there with you.

A funny interview with Jeeves:

Since my cat's name is Jeeves, I did quite the double-take when I saw your post.


Fred Pete - Jul 20, 2005 9:38:52 am PDT #1511 of 10002
Ann, that's a ferret.

GC, my experience in living in the Triangle is some years ago. Though I've kept up to some extent.

It's probably as good as you're going to find in NC. Especially if you can afford to live in Chapel Hill/Carrboro. (Note: Carrboro has elected -- and re-elected -- an openly gay male mayor.) However, it's an island in a very hostile sea -- you don't have to venture far out of town before things get very scary.


Jars - Jul 20, 2005 9:42:59 am PDT #1512 of 10002

Hey, be grateful you all live in a country where abortion is legal at all. Telling people you're going on a quick trip to England always gets a raised eyebrow here, regardless.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 20, 2005 9:52:06 am PDT #1513 of 10002
What is even happening?

Divorce hasn't even been legal there for 10 years yet, has it Jars?


Jesse - Jul 20, 2005 9:54:05 am PDT #1514 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

There, see.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 20, 2005 9:59:25 am PDT #1515 of 10002
What is even happening?

My doubts about whether I'd stand up to the fire hoses have more to do with abortion-rights related issues. For example, I am for parental notification. I will not support the government removing my right (and responsibility) to parent, and to see to the medical care of my child, because some parents abuse their children, and because when some minors say, "My parents will kill me," what they mean is, "My parents will restrict my freedoms, and will not be happy, and will be disappointed and talk to me, and I am afraid and ashamed."

The above is not an expression of doubt that there are abusive parents. I know there are. And they are out there, whether my right to responsibly parent my child is denied me or not, and they are abusive before the children conceive, not only after. So anyone who wants to deny me my rights, when I am law-abiding and responsible is in for a hell of a fight.


Anne W. - Jul 20, 2005 10:03:42 am PDT #1516 of 10002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

I will not support the government removing my right (and responsibility) to parent, and to see to the medical care of my child, because some parents abuse their children

I completely understand your wanting parental notification (for one thing, it is a medical procedure), but what about the cases where the child's fear of abuse/retribution is founded? Should a claim of "my parents will kill me!" automatically be investigated in those cases? (I'd think that at least examining the kid for signs of abuse would be called for in that case.)


DavidS - Jul 20, 2005 10:05:31 am PDT #1517 of 10002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm totally against parental notification, which has a lot to do with hearing one of my exes talk about her experience getting an abortion when she was 16.


ChiKat - Jul 20, 2005 10:06:49 am PDT #1518 of 10002
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Ahhh, here comes the rain in downtown. Thunder, lightening...... I dig thunderstorms.


brenda m - Jul 20, 2005 10:08:05 am PDT #1519 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Me too. We're all clustered around the windows.