See, Vera? Dress yourself up; you get taken out somewhere fun.

Jayne ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 25 to Life  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Aug 30, 2005 11:54:58 am PDT #9599 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Stephanie, Esquire! Such a huge accomplishment and with a teeny tiny baby, no less. You rule.


Aims - Aug 30, 2005 11:56:09 am PDT #9600 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

does hoochie hoochie dance for Stephanie

Whoot whoot whoot!!


Stephanie - Aug 30, 2005 11:57:34 am PDT #9601 of 10001
Trust my rage

Thanks so much. I am so thrilled (as you might have noticed from the asscaps).


JZ - Aug 30, 2005 11:58:42 am PDT #9602 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Stephanie, millions of congrats on kicking the Bar's ass and making it your bitch WHILE BREASTFEEDING. If I ever fall into deep legal shit I want you representing me because, damn, woman, you can do anything.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 30, 2005 12:02:26 pm PDT #9603 of 10001
What is even happening?

What JZ said. You are woman, hear you roar, Stephanie.


Nicole - Aug 30, 2005 12:21:15 pm PDT #9604 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

Hot DAMN, Stephanie!! Congrats X 1 Billion!


Susan W. - Aug 30, 2005 12:31:02 pm PDT #9605 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Congratulations, Stephanie!


Betsy HP - Aug 30, 2005 12:34:42 pm PDT #9606 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

Stephanie, you radiant STAR.


erikaj - Aug 30, 2005 12:37:55 pm PDT #9607 of 10001
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Damn!(in a good way.)


Betsy HP - Aug 30, 2005 12:38:50 pm PDT #9608 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

I mean, I can't be the only woman who's tried SAHM/work from home and thought, you know, this isn't working. And you can't place the child before you have a job, because until you have the job you don't have money!

Susan, I did just that. Stayed home with second kid, went nuts, had to jobhunt and daycare-hunt simultaneously. The trick is that you have to hunt for childcare just the way you are supposed to hunt for jobs -- make sure everybody you know is aware that you're looking. That means that, for instance, you tell your minister, because s/he may know some mothers you don't, or know somebody at another church, or be willing to put a note on the board.

It's exhausting, but it can be done. I wound up stair-stepping up from not-so-great daycare to better daycare. Then I got incredibly lucky, and found this wonderful woman who took in both my daughter after school and my son as an infant. She was everything I dreamed of, and I only found her because her oldest kid went to the same school mine did.