Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!

Xander ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 25 to Life  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Aug 30, 2005 11:54:58 am PDT #9599 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Stephanie, Esquire! Such a huge accomplishment and with a teeny tiny baby, no less. You rule.


Aims - Aug 30, 2005 11:56:09 am PDT #9600 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

does hoochie hoochie dance for Stephanie

Whoot whoot whoot!!


Stephanie - Aug 30, 2005 11:57:34 am PDT #9601 of 10001
Trust my rage

Thanks so much. I am so thrilled (as you might have noticed from the asscaps).


JZ - Aug 30, 2005 11:58:42 am PDT #9602 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Stephanie, millions of congrats on kicking the Bar's ass and making it your bitch WHILE BREASTFEEDING. If I ever fall into deep legal shit I want you representing me because, damn, woman, you can do anything.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 30, 2005 12:02:26 pm PDT #9603 of 10001
What is even happening?

What JZ said. You are woman, hear you roar, Stephanie.


Nicole - Aug 30, 2005 12:21:15 pm PDT #9604 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

Hot DAMN, Stephanie!! Congrats X 1 Billion!


Susan W. - Aug 30, 2005 12:31:02 pm PDT #9605 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Congratulations, Stephanie!


Betsy HP - Aug 30, 2005 12:34:42 pm PDT #9606 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

Stephanie, you radiant STAR.


erikaj - Aug 30, 2005 12:37:55 pm PDT #9607 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

Damn!(in a good way.)


Betsy HP - Aug 30, 2005 12:38:50 pm PDT #9608 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

I mean, I can't be the only woman who's tried SAHM/work from home and thought, you know, this isn't working. And you can't place the child before you have a job, because until you have the job you don't have money!

Susan, I did just that. Stayed home with second kid, went nuts, had to jobhunt and daycare-hunt simultaneously. The trick is that you have to hunt for childcare just the way you are supposed to hunt for jobs -- make sure everybody you know is aware that you're looking. That means that, for instance, you tell your minister, because s/he may know some mothers you don't, or know somebody at another church, or be willing to put a note on the board.

It's exhausting, but it can be done. I wound up stair-stepping up from not-so-great daycare to better daycare. Then I got incredibly lucky, and found this wonderful woman who took in both my daughter after school and my son as an infant. She was everything I dreamed of, and I only found her because her oldest kid went to the same school mine did.