Stephanie, you radiant STAR.
'Destiny'
Spike's Bitches 25 to Life
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Damn!(in a good way.)
I mean, I can't be the only woman who's tried SAHM/work from home and thought, you know, this isn't working. And you can't place the child before you have a job, because until you have the job you don't have money!
Susan, I did just that. Stayed home with second kid, went nuts, had to jobhunt and daycare-hunt simultaneously. The trick is that you have to hunt for childcare just the way you are supposed to hunt for jobs -- make sure everybody you know is aware that you're looking. That means that, for instance, you tell your minister, because s/he may know some mothers you don't, or know somebody at another church, or be willing to put a note on the board.
It's exhausting, but it can be done. I wound up stair-stepping up from not-so-great daycare to better daycare. Then I got incredibly lucky, and found this wonderful woman who took in both my daughter after school and my son as an infant. She was everything I dreamed of, and I only found her because her oldest kid went to the same school mine did.
Whoo-hoo, Stephanie! Totally in awe, here. On the first try! With a newborn! You deserve a parade.
Stephanie gets my vote for Wonder Woman casting.
Seconded!
Congratulations, Stephanie!!! You are Wonder Woman -- breast-feeding a newborn with your DH in another country and you passed the bar first time! Yay!
And so soon after her birth. I mean, really, really, really soon. I was still debating if I should take two naps, or three, that soon after my children were born.
Stephanie, had you even had your six week check-up when you took the Bar Exam?
Stephanie, that is so freaking AWESOME! Go, you! Whoot!
Laura Holt, insent
I'm going to cheer Stephanie again as long as I"m here.
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Stephanie, had you even had your six week check-up when you took the Bar Exam?
I think it was the week before the exam. I was very lucky that Ellie came 11 days early. That helped a lot, both with the breastfeeding and having a bit more time to study post-hospital.