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Scrappy - Aug 28, 2005 4:10:36 pm PDT #9275 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I remember from my dad that Coumadin DOES make for the freaky bleeding. My dad would bruise if you so much as breathed on him. When I see old dudes with bruises all over their hands, I'll say "blood thinners?" and they'll nod.

Still, he needs levels monitored so the drug does its job without doing it too well. If it's any comfort, MILLIONS of people are on this drug and they learn to cope really well.


Amy - Aug 28, 2005 4:18:02 pm PDT #9276 of 10001
Because books.

Fifthing (?) the advice about your dad, askye. Urge him to call tomorrow, first thing, and ask if he's having his labs done regularly. My FiL is on it, and I know every once in a while the levels fluctuate, and they adjust it. As Robin said, millions of people take it, and it just needs to be monitored.

Hopefully, we have reached a compromise.

I hope so, too, Stephanie. After my grandfather had heart surgery (and this is years ago, but still) he had some strange behavior changes for a while. Wouldn't go to a movie theater was one I remember, and there was new some argumentativeness. So that may be part of what your dad's going through. I have no idea if that's a medically accepted side effect, but I do know my grandfather went through it.


askye - Aug 28, 2005 4:48:02 pm PDT #9277 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

Thanks for the advice. I just get freaked at odd times.


Jen - Aug 28, 2005 5:16:46 pm PDT #9278 of 10001
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

askye, it's very normal for people taking Coumadin to bleed longer if they cut themselves. What should NEVER happen, though, is for bleeding to occur spontaneously, without a noticeable cut.

So, if he's too stubborn to get his levels checked (which he really should, but it's not like you can physically restrain him and take him to the doctor against his will), at least get a promise from him that if he starts to get nosebleeds for no reason or ever notices that the whites of his eyes are red, he'll get to the hospital right away.

ETA that elevated Coumadin levels aren't going to create a hemophiliac-like condition in him, so you don't have to worry that a small cut is going to result in him bleeding to death.


WindSparrow - Aug 28, 2005 6:01:48 pm PDT #9279 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

The cats have now convinced Dan's mother that they are being deliberately starved to death, and have never been fed. I don't know if they have asked her to stage an intervention or just call the Animal Cops.


Steph L. - Aug 28, 2005 6:04:09 pm PDT #9280 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

The cats have now convinced Dan's mother that they are being deliberately starved to death, and have never been fed. I don't know if they have asked her to stage an intervention or just call the Animal Cops.

Animals are such drama queens, aren't they? "I've never been fed! EVER! I'm so weak from hunger that I can barely meow at you! Please, just a scrap!!!"

And, "Pet me pet me pet me rub my tummmmmmmmy!!! NO ONE EVER PETS ME!!! I'm so deprived!!! Dear god, pet meeeeeeee!!!"

Drama queens.


Anne W. - Aug 28, 2005 6:05:38 pm PDT #9281 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

"Pet me pet me pet me rub my tummmmmmmmy!!! NO ONE EVER PETS ME!!! I'm so deprived!!! Dear god, pet meeeeeeee!!!"

Oh, yes. And all to often this is followed by a kitty's jaws clamped around one's wrist for daring to pet said kitty on the tummy as asked.


Cass - Aug 28, 2005 6:08:01 pm PDT #9282 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

You guys have hidden cameras in my house, don't you?


Trudy Booth - Aug 28, 2005 6:27:42 pm PDT #9283 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

You guys have hidden cameras in my house, don't you?

Uh, yeah, 'cause its the cats we'd be watching if we did.


Steph L. - Aug 28, 2005 6:43:31 pm PDT #9284 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Dogs do the same damn thing, though. My mom's dog acts like he's never even SEEN a food dish before, let alone dog food. And of course NO ONE ever plays with him, the poor neglected thing, woe is he.