Askye, that is smart. She could send them coffee from here: [link]

{{Aimee}} cowhole sucks. Plus what everyone else said.

When I told my mom in undergrad that I was going to be just a theatre major and drop my other majors her response was, "But why would you do that, theatre is what talented people do."

Okay, now I want to whack ND's mother about the head and shoulders. While I'm at it, I want to explain to Destination Wedding person the ecological impact of having a bunch of people fly to Costa Rica. I've generally had the impression that Destination Wedding is shorthand for "inconveniencing as many people as possible."

Beautiful awareness ND. Good on ya. And bless them for growing too.

MoH DOESN'T PAY FOR ANYTHING?

Well, she has to pay for her airfare.

t makes gaging motion

My poor future- SIL has already started stressing a bit about wedding planning. Some of her distant relatives she doesn't like (they are mean to her Mom) are trying to invite themselves to the wedding. Her sister is trying to convince her to have it at a family farm.

My brother's joked that they'll make a website with a Wedding Stress o Meter with a red zone. As soon as the meter hits the red zone they'll elope. All guests and family members will be encouraged to check the Stressometer to see how close they are to causing an elopment.

At least I think he was joking.

She's probably just using frequent flier miles.

MoH DOESN'T PAY FOR ANYTHING?

Well, she has to pay for her airfare.

I'm still boggling at this. She "hosts" a party that other people have to pay for while SHE PAYS NOTHING? Do the other unfortunate party-invitees know this?

At least I think he was joking.

Wedding gift -- visit to your place. Call courthouse, schedule appointment with judge. Couple marries at courthouse.

Of course, this doesn't work if couple lives locally.

I'm still boggling at this. She "hosts" a party that other people have to pay for while SHE PAYS NOTHING? Do the other unfortunate party-invitees know this?

I doubt it. With the exception of 2 other invitees (the tenants I sopke of earlier), everyone else is in the "well off" category and probably wouldn't care.

I figure, this is better than the "Spa Trip" it was supposed to be where everyone paid for their own treatments.

My Kung Fu school had a beach party, and I met the (white) girlfriend of one of the (Indian) instructors. I mentioned something about having a friend who was struggling with similar. The girlfriend said something about his family not being as traditional (I believe the phrase second-generation may have been thrown in), but she still seemed kinda uncomfortable (actually made me wonder if I may have accidentally trod upon toes). Anyway, umm, thought of you this weekend.

Aaah, yeeps. I hope those crazy kids work it out.

And ouch, ND. Mine is a scene in our kitchen at home, in which I mention that I love to write, and my mom says that's okay, I can still write as a hobby, and my dad says, and I will never forget, "You're not going to waste your brain with writing!"