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[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
'kay, not my friend, but I'm thinking if she wants y'all to go out for dinner at a swanky place and she's expecting fucking PRESENTS? She pays for the dinner.
End. Of. Story.
I agree. Or, if not the Bride, the MoH, who is the one that for sure decided this is where the shower is at.
I wish it were over.
You know, Aimee, I think you would be COMPLETELY justified at this point in saying "With a new baby, our finances are tight. I will happily attend the wedding and bring a present, but I can't afford to spend money on anything else."
This is insane.
Jesus, Aimee. The more you post about this, the more I want to smack them.Oh, dear. In my eternally mememeeeeeness of the past few days, I completely forgot to respond to this. However, Fay convienently spoke for me. I am so completely proud of you for standing up to the outspending the Jones-athon that this seemed to become. It's a celebration, not a way to spur on the economy. Or, at least, it should be.
This post brought to you by commas, all mine.
I'm a bridesmaid.
We have decided NOT to go to the hotel restaurant and honestly, I probably won't be ther for that portion of the evening.
So, yeah. It sucks all the way around. Shrug. I'm going to do what I can and if Bride or MoH has a problem with it, I can easily give back the dress and tell them both to get bent.
It's a celebration,
BITCHES!
t /Chappelle
t giggles at GC
I can easily give back the dress and tell them both to get bent.
It's reaching that point. However, you don't have to say "get bent"; you can say "I can't afford this right now, but I hope you have a lovely time."
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Did I also mention said wedding is in MICHIGAN? And that Joe is in it too?
That sounds lovely actually.
Consider yourself pencilled-in (but really dark pencil, the kind that gets smeary if you try to erase it).
Aimee, you seem to be handling this beautifully. I'm full of admiration. (This being the wedding crap, rather than finances crap. Not that you're not coping there too, I just think you'll require a bit less grace and a bit more ass-kickage). Make Joe get you an ice cream or something tonight.